I just had this close game this was COMPLETELY 


ed over (for me) because every single time one of those crucial "who clicks first" times came up I lost. (i.e. he went first).
What determines this? Pure luck? Ping?
To make clear what I'm talking about: A warrior comes next to the tile of an enemy settler. Obviously the player with the settler wants to move away and the warrior wants to move into the tile with the settler.



ed over (for me) because every single time one of those crucial "who clicks first" times came up I lost. (i.e. he went first).What determines this? Pure luck? Ping?
To make clear what I'm talking about: A warrior comes next to the tile of an enemy settler. Obviously the player with the settler wants to move away and the warrior wants to move into the tile with the settler.

). I´ve summarized why those are a necessity in multiplayer without being a problem, rather an additional element of skill besides in basically one exception here: 