Dear CiVOT Love Guru, This is for this who are married, attached or anyone in a serious relationship before. For those who believe in monogamy and solely one to one relationship. How do you make up your mind ?? How do you decided to give up the "rest of the forest" and focus on one tree ?? Is it a very terrible thing to do ?? There are so many girls/guys out there. And if you cant find the perfect one. do you compromise ?? Or should one just settle for the next one that comes along ?? Or settle for second best etc etc... What about multiple dating ? Or having mistress ?? Or .... <insert any bright idea here> - Confused Soul p/s: Im posting this for somebody else, serious.