longtimelurker0
Chieftain
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So there's this girl (I'm a guy btw), that I've known for a few months and I always felt something strange in the way we interact. First off, we met when both of us were the only ones in a study lounge at midnight studying for our classes, and it turned out, we were in the same engineering class. We chatted quite a bit throughout the night until 4am, when we left and went back home. The next day, she remembered me in the lab, and it seemed normal. She saw me as she was leaving, and we talked a little about our projects. Now, fast forward a week, and I finally came to lecture and while waiting outside for the prevoious class to end (I usually watch webcasts which is why I usually don't show up) and when I saw her and smiled her, and instead of saying hi, she looked down and smiled a bit and walked away. We bumped into each other a few times after in lecture and in lab and she acted as if she doesn't know me. During that time, Once in a crowd when we're pretty close, she walked around me without any acknowledgement. So I thought that she probably doesn't like me as a person after those two interactions for whatever reason and I forgot about her. Three weeks later, I received a facebook notification that she accepted my friend request from 3 weeks ago and a few days after, she started talking to me and we chatted with me about our project in the lab. We also studied a bit together, with some other friends as finals approached that semester. Whatever, that concludes last semester.
This semester, we occasionally say hi to each other if we bump into each other, other times she ignores me when she passes me, but I don't think there is anything too odd to talk about.
Some people have suggested that there is a good chance she likes me (a more detailed version of this was posted in a few other forums I lurk around), but instead of discussing that here, I'll be asking you guys this: If she does NOT like me, why would she act like this to someone she knows? I get that sometimes people may be may be busy in their thoughts and occasionally ignore people they pass, but the way she treated me, in the weeks after we first met, she completely ignored as if she doesn't know me at all. Most acquaintances at least acknowledge me, especially if we're not passing each other quickly but saw each other while standing in close proximity. And those include acquaintances who I only talked to once in class for like 10 minutes, much less a few hours which was the case when I first met the girl. I thought she could only do this if she dislikes me or forgot about me. But then she started talking to me again suddenly a few weeks later, so clearly, she cannot dislike me, nor did she forget me right after we 1st met.
This semester, we occasionally say hi to each other if we bump into each other, other times she ignores me when she passes me, but I don't think there is anything too odd to talk about.
Some people have suggested that there is a good chance she likes me (a more detailed version of this was posted in a few other forums I lurk around), but instead of discussing that here, I'll be asking you guys this: If she does NOT like me, why would she act like this to someone she knows? I get that sometimes people may be may be busy in their thoughts and occasionally ignore people they pass, but the way she treated me, in the weeks after we first met, she completely ignored as if she doesn't know me at all. Most acquaintances at least acknowledge me, especially if we're not passing each other quickly but saw each other while standing in close proximity. And those include acquaintances who I only talked to once in class for like 10 minutes, much less a few hours which was the case when I first met the girl. I thought she could only do this if she dislikes me or forgot about me. But then she started talking to me again suddenly a few weeks later, so clearly, she cannot dislike me, nor did she forget me right after we 1st met.