i sincerley hope i do not offend anybody, because it is not my wish to do so. however (you knew it was coming)
it is an interesting and at the same time difficult to answer question. and of course there is not one answer to it. as you may have guessed i do not doubt the OP's claim, i do agree with it. now why is that, exactly? i'm a german btw and have grown up with the experience of going to foreign countries and immediatly being called a nazi as soon as my nationality was revealed, so i can relate. let's recap some common arguments:
- kyoto
- weapons of mass destruction... errr, we didn't say that! we came to liberate the iraqui populace!
- guantanamo, waterboarding
- death sentence (isn't that one of the reasons turquey, erm, i spelled that wrong, is not yet allowd into the EU?)
- backwards attitude towards PDAs (surprisingly enough akin to muslim attitudes)
- the "election" of george W as president the first time around, of course that black guy over there with the same middle name as a rapist shouldn't be allowed to vote!
- reelecting george W, legally!
- electing jeb bush to be president of the US in 8 years!
- the farce about clinton's BJ, go bill! the only person to throw a hissy fit should have been hillary. stains on some blue dress should not serve to judge a president (however inapropiate they might be)
- pig's bay
- assanination attempts on castro
- any dictatorial regime the US has supported as long as it benefits them (but in irak we want to liberalte the people!)
- CIA
- school shootings and liberal (heh, yeah THAT is liberal) gun laws
- FBI
- college education costs WHAT?
- j edgar hoover
- we do not want illegal immigrants, unless they clean up our dirt and do not get medical or any other benefits
but imho the thing that really alienates us euros is: we are afraid of stupidity, we see it in our own societies (heck we germans REALLY freaked about a study called the pisa studies where we were ranked amongst the bottom as far as basic education is concerned) but we really and easily see it in the US. and boy doesn't george W just deliver? in spades? show of hands! which US citizen here fluently speaks a foreign language? do not raise your hand if you mow lawns for 2$ per hour, you might get deported!
there was a time, pretty recently i might add, when the US was amongst the most liberal countries in the world (today 'liberal' might even be a four-letter word), the time of muhammad ali, malcom x, martin luther king (and boy did they get a warm welcome!)
my best friend is an american, i used to be in love with an american girl and wanted to study in the US. today i am faced with the decision of where to spend my 1 year of being in an english-speaking country... it's going to be the UK or the bahamas.... it is not going to be the US
then again, you probably wouldn't let me enter the country anyhow, i'd check the "get a grip" box on the immigration form.
PS: you want some FREEDOM FRIES with that order? (what is a belgium anyways?)