Erik Mesoy
Core Tester / Intern
No. Not in Heaven. I brought this up in a previous thread, but let me expand upon it here.El_Machinae said:I said it before, I would be sad if my gramma wasn't in Heaven.
Heaven is meant as a place of perfect joy. This means that it cannot let Hell make demands on it. When an inhabitant of Hell says "I won't be happy unless you...", s/he is using pity as a weapon against Heaven and goodness. Hence that weapon will have to be destroyed, or else Hell can order Heaven around.
So, in order that Heaven not be at the mercy of Hell, it has to answer "Then be unhappy.". Heaven is meant for eternal joy, not eternal sorrow, which means that you won't get to bring your sorrows into that eternity.
If you demand the 'right' (a strange word in this context) to be unhappy, you're in Hell and you'll stay there until you get over your sorrows. You cannot bring a single thing of Hell with you to Heaven.
In Heaven, you would not be sad for your gramma. While respect for the dead and commiseration are all very well, in the end sadness is a negative thing, and hence a work of Satan, as I see it. There is no mourning in Heaven - not because it's enforced, but because you will have to choose to accept joy over sorrow in order to enter, even if that sorrow is something dear to you.