on my continents test, the landgrab wasn't as oh-so-terrible as on inland seas. so i figured okay, i'll focus on religions and making london pretty and then sprawl out some. researched mysticism, warrior headed west to pop the hut. it gave me hunting (not bad, i might have preferred a scout but at least it got me to AH quicker so it's actually better longterm).
3720 myst comes in, and i start drooling over a great city spot. gold/cows/clams. financial clams even!! then within 2 turns i see someone's borders and i'm like "ooooooh noooooooo". it was gus, and he swapped to slavery the very next turn.
so i'm like yeah ok, i didn't think i'd need to obsess about a landgrab. but there's a city that belongs to me, not to him, and he can chop trees and he can whip. i need to get a settler there before he does! if i don't at least try i will hate myself. i actually alt-tabbed out to the calculator to figure out whether to start a settler at pop 2 or grow to 3

. if i ignored commerce on the lake, growing to 3 first was gonna cost one extra turn, but then i'd have at least a second warrior for our empire ... i hadn't even finished my first warrior yet! so i ignored the commerce i could have gotten from the lake, full speed ahead on food, got warrior #2 out to look around, started making a settler, and prayed.
somewhere in there i got 40g from a hut and founded hinduism. i started researching AH next since i had hunting (later realized i should have done agriculture first to get the double pre-req bonus

). i met washington and it actually kind of surprised me. i was sooo obsessed with "OMG must have this city" that i'd forgotten other people existed. especially since by now i'd seen wheat there. 2800 AH came in, there's horses over there by gold/clams/cows/wheat/wine/fishville TOO. that place is a mess of good cities! still nobody had founded buddhism, i wanted to research meditation but i knew that if i succeeded at that, i'd have jinxed myself at reaching the city first. so, i started agriculture.
i barely beat him

! his archer/settler was on the plains hill between the fish and the clams, the AI blue dot suggestions were on the square he was on, and the square i was on. he probably would have settled there next turn, but i'd moved on to my forest last turn so i could settle that turn, and "neener neener gus!" once i saw the wheat i decided that the harbor will give me health, who needs a fresh water bonus anyway, might as well save the fish for another city. looks like he made the other city, if one of y'all wants to like, kill him with axes for me or something i'd love to have it too

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so, i have a london with 3 people, a york with 1 person, several worker techs, but no workers at all! our army consists of two warriors, and one's not at full health. it wasn't until 5 or 6 turns
after the settler was done that i remembered "oh yeah, work the lake again, you do need commerce after all!"
i met mao in 2480 and then all of a sudden it was 2400 BC already. i didn't explore hardly at all in the north, the warrior up there spent a lot of time healing. and i should have gone to over to look at gus's capital for intelligence if somebody wants to kill him, but

hubby's fault of course. there's a doubleplusgood spot in the south i want after ironworking that i'm drooling over too...dyes/pigs/hills and a freshwater lake that can get a lighthouse.
i think buddhism STILL hasn't been founded! i really should have gone for it, but i'm glad i got my city *giggle*.
edit: i'll put in a picture too. is it pathetic that i gloated at a bunch of pixels on a screen?