I need some help and some questions answering.
A while ago I got talking to this girl. She was very nice - both to look at and personality wise, and she was intelligent with a good sense of humour... an all round good catch. It felt like we hit it off. We would regularly talk to each other both in person and online, she would often go out of her way just to talk to me and she always tried to think of new things to talk about, so it was clear that she enjoyed being with me and talking to me. I detected that she liked me too; she'd always seem a bit nervous when I was around, playing with her hair, and the little things like trying to make eye contact and laughing at near enough anything. So the time came when I asked her out with me just on a casual time out, nothing serious, to which she said yes. It was a good night, we got along and it looked like she enjoyed herself because she was smiling and laughing through it. I took her home and then we went our separate ways, saying that she would talk to me soon.
And so the day after she did talk to me (at this point I was fairly convinced that there was something between us) so I said we should perhaps do something on a free Saturday we both had coming up. She said it could be a good idea and to plan it later. And then I lost all contact with her. She never appears online any more, I can't bump into her at college any more because we have both finished our year, and she isn't responding to the message I sent her over a week ago, even though I know she has seen it (Facebook's new master troll messaging system.) Have I done something to upset or offend? Is this really what women are like? They show interest and having a good time and then just let you down like that?