My family give loads to charity, I myself have setup a standing order to give money monthly to Oxfam. I haven't given any money directly to relieve this disaster in Asia, there is little need as in terms of money, that isn't a problem, whilst coordinating the relief is...this is one disaster governments are going to channel alot of effort and money towards and we all pay our taxes.
I almost consider taxation giving to charity, cos so little of it is directed towards me, a member of the most taxed generation in Britain to pay for what? Locking up druggies, keeping old people alive, more specifically paying for the last 7 days of a persons life (the most costly period to the NHS generally), paying for the fire brigade (when have I needed them

), people that don't go to private schools, the works
In days past, if I had been a student, I wouldn't have now a large student loan to pay off, council tax wouldn't be so high (they love raising it above inflation year in, year out), duty on alcohol would be less as would tax on fuel. Add to that the fact that houses are so darned expensive that I won't be getting on the housing ladder for ages without parental support, which I would be loathe to get.
So, if I include taxes to my standing order, well it could be as much as 40-50% of my money leaves me to visit someone else
