PM'd orders should not be what I should build and what I should research, what I should trade for etc. This is because it is all randomized anyways.
Instead do this:
Sliders: How much to spend in each category
Research: what techs you want (I'll get them if I can)
Units: what unit type(s) I should focus on when building them
Commerce: What commerce building you choose (harbor vs market etc.)
Cultural: temple vs colluseum etc.
Military: rax vs walls etc.
Science: well, there's really no choice here. But if I can't build a science building, tell me what to choose instead.
Settling Style: CxC or CxxC .... and Focus on near resources, luxes, rivers, sea, block other civ's expansion....
Wonders: Which one you want (don't tell others)
Spying: Ask who to take a look at and which city(s)
Resources: What to sell or not or what to buy or not.