I usually play on a Continents map on the Standard map size. My goal is to usually be near the average in terms of military size, so that I don't get bullied. But, there's often one strong and one weak Civ on the same island, and the strong one eventually goes to war with the weak one.
What's a good way to deal with these guys? Usually if I don't involve myself, then the bully Civ will eventually have so many new puppet cities that their Science is through the roof and they beat me to a Science victory. But I'm often hesitant to go to war with the Civ, too, because of the diplomatic hit and the fact that I don't usually have a strong military, although I think I can probably help fend off attacks because I usually build Composite Bowman (and its upgraded variants) for defense purposes.
I sometimes try to bribe the bully Civ to go to Peace with the weak Civ, too, but that doesn't always work (the option is sometimes grayed out because they don't want Peace) or they ask for way too much.
Another option might be to ask other Civs to go to war with the bully Civ? But that doesn't always work, for practical purposes, because the Civs have to be neighbors in order for this to be effective since the AI has a tough time moving units across an island.
What's a good way to deal with these guys? Usually if I don't involve myself, then the bully Civ will eventually have so many new puppet cities that their Science is through the roof and they beat me to a Science victory. But I'm often hesitant to go to war with the Civ, too, because of the diplomatic hit and the fact that I don't usually have a strong military, although I think I can probably help fend off attacks because I usually build Composite Bowman (and its upgraded variants) for defense purposes.
I sometimes try to bribe the bully Civ to go to Peace with the weak Civ, too, but that doesn't always work (the option is sometimes grayed out because they don't want Peace) or they ask for way too much.
Another option might be to ask other Civs to go to war with the bully Civ? But that doesn't always work, for practical purposes, because the Civs have to be neighbors in order for this to be effective since the AI has a tough time moving units across an island.