Would you trust a guy that knock three civs out of the game? Hell no!
Of course not, but what bothers me is the AI WILL trust a guy who knocks 3 civs out of the game...as long as it's another AI. I was playing a game the other day where Atilla wiped out Spain with no consequence, wiped out Rammy after I liberated him and then becomes FRIENDS with England, his neighbor, the next turn. He eventually backstabbed England after I paid him for a pittance of 200 gold around turn 220.
Now, I have no problem with Attila doing ANY of that. He's Attila the Hun, he's a jackass. There should be leaders Attila and Alex and Caesar and psycho ones like Montezuma. But other civs should
stop trusting the psychopaths at some point.
I agree with a lot of what you said. One thing I would like to see is them diversify each leader's dialogue. Napoleon should not say what Alexander would say.
I know this is a minor thing but I agree with this so much. It's even more evident with wars. Monty's dialogue gives some speech totally unfitting of him about "uniting the planet" while he shouts SHIMMICACAN in the background. The same thing happens with other leaders saying things in their language totally different than the random dialogue. More stuff like "I will sacrifice 10 captives to commemorate this meeting!" would be awesome.
So yeah anyway, played around in a Deity game yesterday on my masochistic quest to beat it with Civs I hate playing, in this case Germany. I was friends with Isabella, about 5 turns I put a second city down. It was about 7 hexes from her second city if you pathed it directly, but it was about twice that from land. She demands I stop settling near her, I promise not to settle near her. Next turn...denounces me, hence backstabbing me, I denounce her back because she had no friends. Two turns later she DoWs me. Turn after that, Polynesia denounces me. Why? "Civs they like more than you have denounced you!", -2 modifier. They weren't even FRIENDS with each other, why did that matter? It was LITERALLY a popularity contest.
So let me get this straight:
-Polynesia
conquers a city-state, doesn't get denounced.
-Isabella
backstabs me, doesn't get denounced.
-Sweden DoWed me for no reason at all other than being neighbors on turn ~35, doesn't get denounced.
-I denounce someone who backstabs me,
I get denounced.
Doesn't something seem a LITTLE out of whack there?
tl;dr The AI gets away with absolute murder but will denounce you for looking at them crooked or doing silly things like "not liking getting backstabbed". The only way it's like "playing with humans" is if you're the kid in middle school getting bullied and ostracized by all the other kids.