I guess I'm somewhat biased and scarred from childhood. I had two older brothers and we had one Atari 2600. We had to take turns playing, if you hit reset, your turn was over. So when I played by myself, I'd screw up the game, and hit reset. I was so conditioned to do that it became instinct and I would do it when we were all playing. I'd lose my turn and would have to hand the controller to my older brother who would then play for 30 minutes because he kicked ass on every game. I still won't hit reset. Two Civ V examples:
1. My first game moving up to Prince difficulty, I DoW'd Inca, invaded, seiged a city, and we traded units. When I looked up and saw after 100 years of fighting I still had not taken a city I wrote the game off. BUT, I saw that as a chance to go back and reload to try a few scenarios to learn from. I tried 2 other strategies, saw which worked better, then started a new game with that knowledge. Any win would be corrupted by the tile knowledge I had from my first attempt. I couldn't call it a win so no point going forward.
2. My current game. I just bought Ancient Wonders and wanted to try building Zeus. I picked Washington because I like mid-game/late game wars and betw Minuteman and B-17 it gets no better. After scouting I realized I was on an island with 3 city states. My strategy to build Zeus, get some Warriors promoted through early wars, upgrading to Minuteman, than steamrolling everyone wasn't going to work. My gut was to scrap the game and start over. Instead I decided this was an ideal map to try my first Cultural win. I'm now on my 5th tree, Catherine has a city on my continent, I'm woefully out-teched, too broke to pay off the CS's on my continent, and all my culture techs are getting robbed by everyone because my 2 spies are utterly useless ("Uh yeah, hey, sorry to tell you someone just stole Machinery, must've been when I went to grab a coke or something. Sorry, boss.") The point is, being so far out of my comfort zone, this is the most tense but enjoyable Civ game I've played in a LONG time, just when I was starting to get bored with Dom victories. I'll come out of this game a better player even for future Dom VC games.
It doesn't matter what other folks here say about whether you're cheating or you aren't. I'm just saying you may find yourself with a game that if continued, could be pretty damn fun. That's not to say this Cult VC isn't getting a bit tiresome, but I want to see if my battle strategies and tactics are going to be enough to hold off the invaders until I can build Utopia. Defending my entire Eastern border from Cavalry and swarms of Rifles with 1 Cannon, 1 Pikeman, 1 Lancer (may God rest his soul) 2 gatlings, and a Knight with medic has been tense but pretty damn fun. When Harold DoW's me and sends in all those ski infantries on my border, it's gonna get bloody! These battles are a hell of a lot more fun than my mid-game steamrolling from past games.