I've only read one review about Siege of Dragonspear and it was pretty harsh. Apparently it's full of plot holes, railroads you after giving you the illusion of choice, completely changes the personalities of some of your party members and is just poorly written.
Sometimes it's better to just leave the classics alone, especially those that have aged as poorly as Baldur's Gate.
Also this
Point and Clickbait poke must be posted.
I didn't like Krem either. Not because he was trans, but because it was so ham-fisted. When he said the Qunari treat him like a real man and Iron Bull answered "You
are a real man" I literally
and groaned. Maybe I'm the bad guy here, but it was just so cheesy. It didn't help that Iron Bull is one of the worst written characters Bioware ever created and the Qunari attitude to gender appears like a massive retcon. It might not be one, but it seems really at odds with their earlier characterization as a society with a strict caste system and segregated sexes. You
can have trans characters in a fantasy game without breaking immersion, but Bioware failed at that.
Dorian was handled far better, except for the after school special about his father.
I think the closest you'll get is player sexual, if you look at bioware "romances" they always half arse it whether it's a man or a woman the character is talking with.
They used to be better and are getting worse with each game. They used to be more subtle and you needed to know the characters to give the "right" answers. Romances in Inquisition are really half assed and the heart icon on the dialogue wheel completely ruins them by showing you exactly what you are
supposed to say (and sometimes the dialogue options seem like pickup artist mind tricks). You can't even accidentally flirt any more.
For my sins, I have never played dragon age 2. So I don't actually know what you are talking about. It's on my to do list.
Have you played Awakening ?
It's Anders. I liked him in Awakening, although he was too obviously an Alastair surrogate. In Dragon Age 2 he has really changed for the worse and is one the reasons the game is so reviled.