Strange Pittboss connection? problem

I am having some connection problems for some reason...

see attached images... On civstats I show as logged in on CivStats.... But I keep getting stuck on the Finishing screen... I tried leaving it for 15 minutes... I tried ALT-TAB, I tried doing nothing.... I dont know anymore... I can switch to the city governer (by pressing F1) and stuff... but I dont get the map....
I tried connecting to the IP number instead of the DNS? Name....

I am also connecting to a peer, but aside from the first logon (10:12 PM) when Madiba was online... No one is there to connect to... Anyone ever have these problems? Any suggestions?

Oh and I dont have any problems connecting to other Pitboss games... just This one

Contacting Peer ( No one online?? I dont get it...)
Contacted Peer
Finishing
Civstats.com

Any and all suggestions are welcome...

P.S. I never have had any grafics issues (ATI MSI RX9250 grafix card) or performance issues in SP or MP...

P.P.S. I can access any screen, but using the menu (esc) I cannot return to the main menu.... I have to use CTRL-ALT-DEL to shut down Civ...

I also mailed everyone in the game and one of them mailed back:

I believe it was my fault... I was connecting to the game to queue my moves for the next turns, when I had to leave the computer.
So the computer was left on the choose my civ screen, which aparently keeps others from connecting...

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Like I said Issue resolved and recorded for anyone encountering anything like this ....
Possibly saving them 2.5+ Hours of looking for a problem

Good to know, thanks for sharing.