@spankey & augurey
Thanks for your insight guys. That really raises my hope a little.
Well, I feel obligated to share a little information first before going further into this discussion.
I met her when she was a foreign students 5 years ago. We dated for 2 1/2years before she had to go back to her country.
After that, we'll still keep the communications line open by emails,phone calls and such. As both of us didn't exactly make any lifetime commitments and such, both of us are free to see other prospective partners as well, and which she and I both agree that, if we were meant for each other, we'll be back together someday.
Recently I have graduated and moving into the workforce(doing temp now but currently job hunting) . Lately I had an conversation with her, and while realizing that the things between us was special to both of us, decided to make a move.
She was happy at first, and in fact recommended a job at her company in Shanghai, which sadly I couldn't take it as I still have some family commitments to look up for. The only plans that i now have is to visit her after I got a fulltime job here in Malaysia.
Well, after that we're back to square one. While I did ask her, to a certain extent, to wait for me at least for another year(which she replied yes). I could feel that she's being doubtful over the whole affair, by saying that both of us should focus on our career first... yadayadayada.
Your thoughts?