okay, so in order to enable private messages as a new member you should post in this thread:
http://forums.civfanatics.com/showthread.php?t=350036
it's the "Lost PMs and need them?" thread. Or, according to thread, just get 5 posts (forum games do not contribute to postcount).
Otherwise, I will have to replace you in the mafia game. But, you've been online recently. so try to get this done and join up in the game! Not a ton happens the first day anyways in games.
http://forums.civfanatics.com/showthread.php?t=350036
it's the "Lost PMs and need them?" thread. Or, according to thread, just get 5 posts (forum games do not contribute to postcount).
Otherwise, I will have to replace you in the mafia game. But, you've been online recently. so try to get this done and join up in the game! Not a ton happens the first day anyways in games.