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@gary
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@gary
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Welcome to nobles club
. If you post screenies of your games you might be able to get some more help. Lots of people sometimes have mods like BUG or Bat or something hooked up and it can make it diff to load other people's saves sometimes. (it also helps get comments from people who may be reading forums from work or school or something and dont actually have game handy for looking at saves)
As for the diplo thing yeah it can be a pain. Usually you have to make a choice. Once you get lay of land and learn who all hates who pick 1 or two civs to be buddies with (hopefully two that dont hate each other) and make them your priorities always help em when they ask, dont trade with thier worst enemies, try and run their religion and fave civics etc. It doesnt mean you CANT try and make friends with the other ai's too it just that usually it ends if you try to please EVERYBODY you just end up ticking off everybody so just make your budies the priority if it comes to a choice between them or someone out of your little click
And meh declaring 2 turns after you made a peace treaty is weird. If you make a peace treaty it is supposed to ALWAYS last 10 turns minimum before you can redeclare. Only exceptions I can think of are:
A: some kind oif diplo resoution called for all the ai's to declare on you.
B: You DoW on a civ Meh had a def pact with.
C: You were at war with another civ and they voluntarily vassalize to Meh for protection which makes him automatically at war with you.
D: opposite of C Meh is at war with a civ they offer to vassalize to you and you accept which means you at war with Meh automatically
E: you agreed to a ceasefire by mistake and only thought it was a full peace treaty.

As for the diplo thing yeah it can be a pain. Usually you have to make a choice. Once you get lay of land and learn who all hates who pick 1 or two civs to be buddies with (hopefully two that dont hate each other) and make them your priorities always help em when they ask, dont trade with thier worst enemies, try and run their religion and fave civics etc. It doesnt mean you CANT try and make friends with the other ai's too it just that usually it ends if you try to please EVERYBODY you just end up ticking off everybody so just make your budies the priority if it comes to a choice between them or someone out of your little click
And meh declaring 2 turns after you made a peace treaty is weird. If you make a peace treaty it is supposed to ALWAYS last 10 turns minimum before you can redeclare. Only exceptions I can think of are:
A: some kind oif diplo resoution called for all the ai's to declare on you.
B: You DoW on a civ Meh had a def pact with.
C: You were at war with another civ and they voluntarily vassalize to Meh for protection which makes him automatically at war with you.
D: opposite of C Meh is at war with a civ they offer to vassalize to you and you accept which means you at war with Meh automatically
E: you agreed to a ceasefire by mistake and only thought it was a full peace treaty.