I am not a religious person at all. My parents, relatives aswell. Although i have been bathised when i was a baby, so i guess officially i am a catholic, but quite frankly the only times i've been in a church was for funerals of my grand parents and few weddings. I don't think i qualify as a religious person just for that.
My friend however is religious and a lot.. she is jew and her mother, grand parents are very religious, basically the whole family. I have no problem with her reguarding this since i respect it and she does respect aswell my view on the.. if you excuse me.. the whole thing.
I've had some serious discussion about how does the Jewish religion works with her. I was very curious about why they have to do this and that so and so. We are together since 5 years now, i know i'll have to go through the religious rituals in a year or two if everything goes as planned and i'll be honest and tell you i'm quite nervous about it! Because, this mean so much for her and her family but frankly for me it doesn't. Now thats where we had some rather hot discussion about the matter with my friend.
I don' believe in any gods/religion so of course it doesn't mean much, if at all anything for me to get married at a church, beit knesset, masjid... But since i do respect her faith, i can do it. I just need time i guess.