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Why was I chastized in Sunday school (Lutheran) for praying for dead loved ones? Mind you "praying for" not "praying to." As I learned in the Catholic thread, it is not out of the ordinary for them.

Short answer: The Bible forbids it.

I'll find actual verses later.

I don't think that's quite it. You need a more sophisticated understanding of 'detest'. It means 'be willing to discard' or 'devalue' in that text. Yeah, devalue next to God, I get it. In other words, unless you're willing to give up your loved ones to follow God, you cannot be a disciple.

Yes, you must be willing to give them up, if that's what God calls you to do. That does not mean you must actually give them up, only if God tells us to do so.

Yes, but only if you value their lives less than you value your own life.

Not inherently. There's also a societal thing here. If people can just go in with guns and shoot people without getting shot at back, it makes society more dangerous. And not killing them could be more dangerous than actually killing them. Now, I would agree that if you could disarm them without killing them, that is the absolute best choice. But if you simply let them kill you, they could do it to someone else.

Yes, I understand the instinct. I just don't think it can be justified with NT Scripture.
If you're willing to give up your own life to prevent the death of an enemy, I think that's an incredible level of nobility in pacifism.

To a point, yes that would be noble. When you let innocent people suffer and die to allow a guilty person to live, however, this crosses the line of immorality.


IMO only, but I think the modern conception of "Christian" is incredibly diluted. We're raised in these self-satisfied societies, where a bunch of people have figured out how to say "oh yeah, we're Christian" and then the Framing Effect allows others to agree. And their interpretation is the more easy one, so it's more diluted. How can they be anything but lukewarm, if they live in lukewarm houses? Work in lukewarm jobs? Watch lukewarm TV every evening? They get by with just agreeing with each other "yeah, we're Christians!"

Indeed, living in a lukewarm society certainly makes it more difficult to be anything but lukewarm. I definitely think lukewarm teaching is a bad thing. What you are suggesting however, has nothing to do with the core of the Christian message. Christianity is not inherently about giving to the poor, although things like this are important. Christianity is about glorifying God.

Er, what if the rapist ISN'T? Jesus has already asked (many times) to trust him that the right thing will be done, if you follow his teachings. "Blessed are (the victims)". You think Jesus will let your daughter go to Hell, if you failed to save her while trying to do what He wanted? "Oh ye of little faith" springs to mind.

A few things come to mind:

1. The rapist chose to commit a horrifying crime, and so became guilty. Saying you should not kill a guilty person to protect YOURSELF could be justifiable, but saying you should not kill a guilty person to protect someone else is NOT justifiable. Especially if that person wouldn't consent to it.

And BTW, you have no evidence of your conclusion, you are drawing it based on assumption. Jesus never taught total pacifism, and the Bible is evidence of that...

Yes, please. I just don't think it's there. To justify killing, you'd have to go to the OT. That's the way things were before Jesus said to be willing to abandon your family and before Jesus said to not resist evil and before being 'blessed by God' was achieved in afterlife rewards instead of temporal, material rewards.

The ultimate reward was ALWAYS Heaven. Its just that the physical rewards of the OT were pictures of that.

There is some evidence that killing is appropriate in some circumstances in Paul's letters.


- Jesus assaulting all the moneylenders. Well, you're not Jesus. God, we understand, has the right to visit whatever violence He wants. God being vicious doesn't give people the right to be vicious.

That is true, except that Jesus was also man, so if violence was ALWAYS inappropriate for man, it would be inappropriate for Jesus as well.


- Jesus sending the soldier on his way. We have no idea regarding the fate of that soldier. Did he do any killing? We don't know! Was he just a bureaucrat administrator? He might have been.

Even if he were, he still ordered other people to kill, which is the same as doing it yourself.


- Jesus telling the disciples to grab the swords. Okay, this one is more proof for me, because it fits my interpretation. What did Peter do? He used the sword to defend a loved one! What did Jesus do? Chastise him for it! We have a clear example of Jesus (a) fulfilling Scripture regarding his arrest and (b) using Peter as an object lesson to actually not use violence to defend loved ones. To trust God.

No, Jesus was teaching not to use the sword because it was his destiny to be arrested, NOT because violence was always wrong...

If you can find NT script suggesting that "killing bad guys to defend loved ones" is acceptable, then I'm all eyes. We'd wonder, then, how Peter and Paul were martyred though. Because getting martyred (without vigorously defending yourself) is something a pacifist does. Other martyrs, the warrior ones, go down swinging.

"For everything, there is a Season, and a Time for every purpose under Heaven. A time for war, and a time for peace."
 
To enlighten on the Catholic view which you seem to be arguing around.

The souls of the dead are alive save those who are slain in mortal sin. (which no man can without doubt determine on another) Just because one is physically dead does not makes ones soul cease to exist. Thus the christian prays for the deceased in the hope that through God's grace they may repent with perfect contrition (especially in the moment around physical death) and through acceptance of the Lord achieve the beatific vision in heaven and be spared the true death that is damnation and final rejection of God, the Lord and giver of life.
 
We're waiting on these amazing verses which forbid praying for the dead.
 
Not inherently. There's also a societal thing here. If people can just go in with guns and shoot people without getting shot at back, it makes society more dangerous. And not killing them could be more dangerous than actually killing them. Now, I would agree that if you could disarm them without killing them, that is the absolute best choice. But if you simply let them kill you, they could do it to someone else.
I guess I should be clear about what I believe. I'm certainly not advocating that we let strangers kill our families. What you're saying in this paragraph is quite reasonable. It gives into our natural instinct to favour our loved ones over strangers, but ehn, it's a reasonable chain of thinking.

It's merely my position that you're using reasonable thinking as a way of diluting a natural reading of Jesus's quoted words. If we start doing that, the Bible changes very quickly from being a guidebook into a suggestion book where we pick and choose what we think is wise. Now, we all do that anyway (it's impossible not to pick and choose), but some people think that doing so is not being as "Christian as they could be". Being a disciple of Jesus, I think, is supposed to be very, very hard. It takes an incomplete reading to think that it would be easy.
To a point, yes that would be noble. When you let innocent people suffer and die to allow a guilty person to live, however, this crosses the line of immorality.
No one is innocent! All have sinned. Yes, there is a specific victim in this scenario, but all are guilty of being sinful. If we all deserve Hell, then I'm pretty sure we deserve whatever happens to us here. The daughter's fate is in God's hands, no yours.

Jesus tells us many times to comfort victims. He never says (or suggests) to lethally protect them, or to harm another.
Christianity is not inherently about giving to the poor, although things like this are important. Christianity is about glorifying God.
I'm pretty sure that saying that "Christianity is not inherently about giving to the poor" is very much failing to 'glorify God'. The whole of the law was "Love God" AND "Do unto others"; not, "Glorify God, and oh yeah, be nice".

How we treat the poor is how we glorify God! "As you treated the least of these, so have you treated me". You cannot separate the two concepts, Jesus intimated that they were the same thing. Not aiding the poor, the imprisoned, the sick, the sad is the same thing as not loving God.
1. The rapist chose to commit a horrifying crime, and so became guilty. Saying you should not kill a guilty person to protect YOURSELF could be justifiable, but saying you should not kill a guilty person to protect someone else is NOT justifiable. Especially if that person wouldn't consent to it.
Again, I agree with your reasoning here. However, it's not Biblical.
0) "Consent" is a grand ideal. I don't think that it's very Biblical. Except for the personal decision to trust God, I don't think there's consent respected anywhere in the whole book. The only thing that I think is ever consented to is whether you'll accept Jesus's sacrifice.
1) If your daughter was noble enough, she'd be willing to sacrifice her life to save an enemy's life. If she actually sought to be Jesus's disciple, that's the purest expression of loving her enemy.
2) If your daughter was not noble enough, then her fate is in God's hands. Jesus commonly mentions that the victims are going to be blessed. And who knows? If Christians had stuck to their ideals, like they did in the early Christian days, would the religion would be doing better now, as a result? You know, instead of people allowing their instincts towards self-preservation of themselves and their families dominate ...

Abraham was asked to sacrifice his child. It shouldn't be unreasonable to suggest that a hypothetical of Jesus's teachings wouldn't ask you to sacrifice yours.
And BTW, you have no evidence of your conclusion, you are drawing it based on assumption. Jesus never taught total pacifism, and the Bible is evidence of that...
I have given decent evidence that Jesus taught pacifism. "resist not evil" is the main one. "love your enemies". Rebuking Peter's use of a sword is another. Finally, the fact that the apostles didn't go down swinging is good evidence. All of the apostles were non-violent, to the point of being killed! There's no story of "so I swung my sword to escape their evil, so that I could continue preaching!"
That is true, except that Jesus was also man, so if violence was ALWAYS inappropriate for man, it would be inappropriate for Jesus as well.
No, that just doesn't follow. Jesus does many things reserved for God, forgiving sins being one of them (just to make my point). Just because Jesus did it, it doesn't mean we can do it. Now, if it was just the temple-clearing, I'd say it was undecided. But he also gave clear instruction. Resist not evil. Love your enemies.

Seriously, how can you 'resist not evil' and be violent at the same time? It's not unclear!
No, Jesus was teaching not to use the sword because it was his destiny to be arrested, NOT because violence was always wrong...
Why can't it be both? Bringing the sword served no purpose to fulfilling his destiny. It did allow an opportunity to rebuke Peter (Peter is commonly used as an example of 'what not to do') regarding the use of violence.
"For everything, there is a Season, and a Time for every purpose under Heaven. A time for war, and a time for peace."
THAT is in the Old Testament. The OT was certainly 'a time for war'. I have just shown you when "a time for peace" started! The whole of that chapter is about Earthly conditions, not Heavenly conditions, too!

(You'd be amazed at how good that chapter is for my interpretation, btw)
I've said that the true Christian message is to work endlessly in charitable efforts, and to engage in self-denial to do so. Ecc 3 says
"I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live"
Be happy, and to do good. Be happy doing what?
"That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God."
Why to get everyone fed, and to enjoy the toil required to do so.

Finally :)
"As for humans, God tests them so that they may see that they are like the animals."
WAAAAY upthread, I pointed out that baboons prefer their offspring, so it's nothing special if we prefer our offspring too.

If you want to suggest that Jesus didn't preach pacifism, you're going to have to show NT scripture of that.

And, you know, if he didn't teach self-sacrifice for others (to the point of noble self-denial), I kinda wonder what interesting ethical teaching the guy brought up? In my opinion, the only remarkable ethics that Jesus taught was the Golden Rule and the willingness to sacrifice yourself out of a sense of universal love. Everything else, from a secular perspective, is quaint & cute, but not really inspired.
 
I guess I should be clear about what I believe. I'm certainly not advocating that we let strangers kill our families. What you're saying in this paragraph is quite reasonable. It gives into our natural instinct to favour our loved ones over strangers, but ehn, it's a reasonable chain of thinking.

It's merely my position that you're using reasonable thinking as a way of diluting a natural reading of Jesus's quoted words. If we start doing that, the Bible changes very quickly from being a guidebook into a suggestion book where we pick and choose what we think is wise. Now, we all do that anyway (it's impossible not to pick and choose), but some people think that doing so is not being as "Christian as they could be". Being a disciple of Jesus, I think, is supposed to be very, very hard. It takes an incomplete reading to think that it would be easy.


Actually, by ignoring the OT and pretty much everything that Paul said, you are making the Bible into a suggestion book. Now, I get that you are being somewhat consistent about what you include and exclude (Basically, I'll believe it if the Savior himself said it) rather than simply picking and choosing between what you like and don't like. In fact, it seems here that you feel that the nobility of the message should be preserved EVEN IF you don't like it, which is good.

That said, Jesus does not forbid defending loved ones, and other scriptures state that it is sometimes appropriate. My Ecclesiastes quote is one, and Isaiah 58 (I think) talks about protecting the oppressed, which is another.

Now, by that I don't mean to say that Sacrificing your life is never commanded. For everything, there is a Season...

No one is innocent! All have sinned. Yes, there is a specific victim in this scenario, but all are guilty of being sinful. If we all deserve Hell, then I'm pretty sure we deserve whatever happens to us here. The daughter's fate is in God's hands, no yours.

Jesus tells us many times to comfort victims. He never says (or suggests) to lethally protect them, or to harm another.

It is so valid your point of everyone sinning, but what I said about innocence was appliying to specific crime. And the OT makes it clear that different crimes have different punishments. While I would agree that the Law of Moses was specifically for Israel, Capital Punishment for murderers was commanded BEFORE Moses, it was commanded to Noah, and by extension to all men.

I'm pretty sure that saying that "Christianity is not inherently about giving to the poor" is very much failing to 'glorify God'. The whole of the law was "Love God" AND "Do unto others"; not, "Glorify God, and oh yeah, be nice".

How we treat the poor is how we glorify God! "As you treated the least of these, so have you treated me". You cannot separate the two concepts, Jesus intimated that they were the same thing. Not aiding the poor, the imprisoned, the sick, the sad is the same thing as not loving God.

Remember, Love God is listed first. Helping the poor is how we show that, and yes, its very important.

0) "Consent" is a grand ideal. I don't think that it's very Biblical. Except for the personal decision to trust God, I don't think there's consent respected anywhere in the whole book. The only thing that I think is ever consented to is whether you'll accept Jesus's sacrifice.

I think that we must consent to being HELPED proves that by logical extension, we must consent to being HURT as well.

1) If your daughter was noble enough, she'd be willing to sacrifice her life to save an enemy's life. If she actually sought to be Jesus's disciple, that's the purest expression of loving her enemy.

Remember, a "Slap on the cheek" is an insult, the modern equivalent would be spitting on someone. Rape, on the other hand, causes lifelong trauma, and death... is death.

I think the decision whether to fight violently or simply to try to escape such a situation peacefully is a personal decision. But I do not think Jesus calls us to "Let the person be raped, stand by, and THEN comfort them." That doesn't sound ethical to me.

2) If your daughter was not noble enough, then her fate is in God's hands. Jesus commonly mentions that the victims are going to be blessed. And who knows? If Christians had stuck to their ideals, like they did in the early Christian days, would the religion would be doing better now, as a result? You know, instead of people allowing their instincts towards self-preservation of themselves and their families dominate ...

Remember, it is sometimes easy to tell someone's fate. The Unbelieving do NOT have hope of heaven unless they believe. That aside, its not my right to choose for someone else to die while I stand by and watch.

Now, as I said, if you can stop the crime without killing, great!

Abraham was asked to sacrifice his child. It shouldn't be unreasonable to suggest that a hypothetical of Jesus's teachings wouldn't ask you to sacrifice yours.

Abraham was never truly asked to Sacrifice his child. He was asked to be willing to do so. An angel stopped him.

No, that just doesn't follow. Jesus does many things reserved for God, forgiving sins being one of them (just to make my point). Just because Jesus did it, it doesn't mean we can do it. Now, if it was just the temple-clearing, I'd say it was undecided. But he also gave clear instruction. Resist not evil. Love your enemies.

Seriously, how can you 'resist not evil' and be violent at the same time? It's not unclear!

Again, "A slap on the cheek" is an insult. Not a life-threatening injury.

If you want to suggest that Jesus didn't preach pacifism, you're going to have to show NT scripture of that.

Revelation 11. Or heck, the entire book.

I don't think that "Peace or War" is neatly divided into Testaments. God ordered peace in the OT as well. Why do you assume he would never order combat in the NT?

I think its time we ask Plotinus:)
 
Prayer for the LIVING is commanded. Not prayer for the dead.
Yeah, I don't think you're going to find a biblical verse forbidding something (prayer and veneration of the dead) which the early Christians did and was a universally accepted practice among them. This prohibition is a novelty.

It's also silly when Jesus himself said that everyone who believes in him is alive (John 11:26) and thus one cannot object when you are speaking of those who are not even dead. As Jesus said in Luke 20:38, He is not God of the dead, but of the living: for all live to Him.
 
Prayer for the LIVING is commanded. Not prayer for the dead.

People in Heaven aren't dead unless you're suggesting that Jesus was lying when he said people who believe in him will have eternal life.
 
Domination, you can't possibly use Revelation as evidence that Jesus didn't teach pacifism. The whole book is a fantastical vision of St. John the Divine, probably a long time after Jesus' departure. You'll have to do better than that.
 
Actually, I'd be happy to see something from anywhere in the NT. Revelation 11, again, seems to be God killing people.
 
If you want to suggest that Jesus didn't preach pacifism, you're going to have to show NT scripture of that.

I like this challenge. John 5 talks about Jesus is going to be the one who executes Judgement. John 5:19-27 Then answered Jesus and said unto them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, The Son can do nothing of himself, but what he seeth the Father do: for what things soever he doeth, these also doeth the Son likewise.
20 For the Father loveth the Son, and sheweth him all things that himself doeth: and he will shew him greater works than these, that ye may marvel.
21 For as the Father raiseth up the dead, and quickeneth them; even so the Son quickeneth whom he will.
22 For the Father judgeth no man, but hath committed all judgment unto the Son:
23 That all men should honour the Son, even as they honour the Father. He that honoureth not the Son honoureth not the Father which hath sent him.
24 Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that heareth my word, and believeth on him that sent me, hath everlasting life, and shall not come into condemnation; but is passed from death unto life.
25 Verily, verily, I say unto you, The hour is coming, and now is, when the dead shall hear the voice of the Son of God: and they that hear shall live.
26 For as the Father hath life in himself; so hath he given to the Son to have life in himself;
27 And hath given him authority to execute judgment also, because he is the Son of man.

Jesus also talks about that his message will bring strife to this world. Matthew 10:34-37 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.
37 He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

Lets not forget that Jesus twice drove out twice people from the temple when he saw what it had become. The reason is that his message and mission on earth was not to bring about social change and make people feel good about themselves, but to do the will of the father, and he knew that his will was doing the exact opposite of what the world wanted, so his message is divisive. Jesus is a pacifist, but first he needs remove evil from this world before peace will ever be on this earth, and that means destroying them, that is why his message is so divisive, since it is either God's way or the highway. Repent and live, or die in your sins. This is not a pleasant message, but it the only message to bring. That is the whole point of the OT, is to show the consequences of either following or not following God's action plan. We have many examples of people disobeying God and as a result nations are punished for their sins, but we do have examples of those who do repent and as a result of their repentance, they are saved from God's wrath.
 
People in Heaven aren't dead unless you're suggesting that Jesus was lying when he said people who believe in him will have eternal life.

You generally pray for people in purgatory don't you? Wouldn't people in Heaven have no need of prayer? They can talk with Christ himself!

Domination, you can't possibly use Revelation as evidence that Jesus didn't teach pacifism. The whole book is a fantastical vision of St. John the Divine, probably a long time after Jesus' departure. You'll have to do better than that.

Revelation is in the New Testament.

Actually, I'd be happy to see something from anywhere in the NT. Revelation 11, again, seems to be God killing people.

In Revelation 11, whether you take it literally or not, men breathe fire out of their mouths and kill people. That looks like violence to me.

And I agree with Classical_hero as well.
 
John 5 has nothing to do with pacifism or lack thereof. Matthew 10 is certainly more interesting.
 
I said nothing about the New Testament - it was El Mach who did. Revelation has absolutely no bearing on what Jesus may have wanted and, as far as I can tell, there is no possible reason whatsoever to take any of it literally.
 
When I'm rotting in hell, will you send me a care package?
No, because watching the people in Hell being tormented is one of the greater rewards of Heaven. :smug:
 
I like this challenge. John 5 talks about Jesus is going to be the one who executes Judgement
Er, I never said that God didn't have permission to enact violence!
Jesus also talks about that his message will bring strife to this world. Matthew 10:34-37 Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
35 For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
36 And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.
37 He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

Man, did you even read Matthew 10?
5-8, he's expressly telling them to go heal and minister to victims and the unfortunate. Nothing about attacking anyone.

Later down
"Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather, be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell."

The passage you quote is just a reiteration that his teachings will cause upset, and that the disciples have to be willing to abandon their family in order to be disciples (what I said upthread), and even willing to sacrifice their lives. It says nothing about them taking up arms, or smiting evil-doers, or enacting God's justice on people. The only instructions in the whole of Matthew 10 are
"go and help people with their natural ills"
"be prepared to suffer because of me"
"be prepared to lose your family, your loved ones, and your life"

In fact, people at the time thought that Jesus was supposed to bring physical (violent) revolution as the Messiah. They thought that Jesus's liberation, his 'Kingdom' was going to be enacted with actual swords. They were wrong. Jesus did not actually 'bring a sword'; it's obviously (now interpreted as) metaphorical. The people who thought that Jesus's initial establishment of his Kingdom was physical were wrong! His resurrection is the establishment of the spiritual kingdom ... we don't know when the physical kingdom will happen, but we're pretty sure it hasn't happened yet.


(Revelations 11 is a wacky chapter (surprise!), but the verbage gives no hint that the prophets are shooting fire (i.e., they're the actors, like I would be if I shot a gun), merely that fire is coming from their mouth. There's no declared actor, other than the fire itself. And, frankly, Revelations is probably the wrong place to go look for 'instructions' to the faithful. I've only tried to read Revelations a couple of times, but I don't think that there's violence in there that isn't either directly caused by God (or the angels) or could be caused by God)

I always find it weird that I have a higher opinion of Jesus's teachings than Christians do. I'll read Jesus's teachings and be like "hey, Jesus wanted to be incredibly noble, giving, unfearful, and willing to lay down our comfort and our lives for others: both because it's the right thing to do, and because those things glorify God. I know they're impossible standards, but that's what the faith and repentance are for"

And then Christians will be like "nuh uh". This is the same faith that had their apostles being martyred, whose apostles collected no property, and who never were violent (without being rebuked). Boggle!
(Well, not really 'boggle', because it's human instinct to reject teachings that require pacifism, self-sacrifice, and to not prioritise our own family over the offspring of others ...)
 
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