If you're already admitting to have a very picky and particular play style, then it seems a little irrational to be upset that your whims aren't entirely catered to.
Getting 300+ hours of game play out of a single civilization is pretty huge. Well worth the price of the game.
Currently, I'm having a lot of fun playing a "No City Challenge." You play as Germany, and you delete your Settler at the beginning. Then you have to build up an army of barbarians, and capture cities, but you can only puppet cities, you can't annex anything.
It's made for a very unique sort of game, and it was neat being struggling with a tiny score for a long time, but now I've wiped out Persia, Egypt, Rome, and America. I miss being able to build Wonders a lot, but Washington had 5 wonders built when I captured that, so that's a nice different kind of satisfaction.