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I'm in Canada, it gets pretty cold! A blanket during the winter is not enough. I need a warm duvet with a blanket overtop.
Is it generally really cold in the winter where you are? My windows all face southwest, so I get lots of sunlight during the day and it does tend to warm the place up. Plus, Red Deer is close enough to the Rockies to get some benefit from the occasional chinooks during the winter.
You might want to consider adopting a cat or dog. Honestly, they really are the equivalent of a nice warm blanket when they snuggle up with a person.
I would like to have my duvet/comforter cover match the style and colour of the bedsheets. Ideally it would be all in one set or from the same company at least, same brand, etc. so that everything matches. If I go out to a store, they likely won't have whatever brand and style I'm looking up online as their selection will probably be limited by whichever brands they carry.
You could always ask if they'll special order it for you, if their website has things that aren't in the store, or if they have it at another branch.
Take a look at this photo:
The comforter cover matches the pillows and the rest of the bedsheets. That's what I'm after because that's what makes sense to me. I only ever sleep under blankets if I'm staying at a friend's place and I have to sleep on a couch and all he has is blankets. If I'm in a real bed, I'm always under a comforter that's in a cover that matches the rest of the bed sheets. That's what I want for my bedroom, it's what I'm used to.
It's nice to look at, but I honestly can't see myself using anything like that. Maybe in the drafty house I used to live in (the windows weren't installed properly and the bedrooms upstairs were frigid during the winter), but where I am now I'd never need such a heavy thing. The key to comfort that I was always taught is to have different thicknesses of blanket so you can add or take away until you're comfortable.
If I'm not sleeping and my bed is made, I don't want a blanket to be on top that doesn't match the rest of the bedsheets. I mean, it doesn't really matter, but I want a complete set that all matches. The blanket I use during cold nights to throw overtop everything gets put aside when I wake up. I want everything else other than that to match. It's fine if the pillows and the sheet I sleep on (that's on top of the mattress - fitting sheet?) are white or a different colour - as long as the whole complete set - including the duvet/comforter cover were all designed to be all a part of the same matching set, so that it doesn't look out of place whether you're in bed or not.
The bedsheet set I initially linked was all the same colour - beige. The flat sheet, fitted sheet, and bed sheets were all the same. So, the cover I use for my duvet/comforter, I want that to be the exact same design and colour. Wouldn't it be weird if it was different? I don't understand all of this confusion at all. (It's not your fault, I blame the north american bedding conspiracy lizard people or whoever they are)
To each their own, I guess. For me, it's nice if things match - sorta - but function is more important than appearance. I remember when I was in high school and my mother threw a fit because none of my bedroom furniture matched. She really made my grandmother feel guilty that they couldn't afford to buy me a matching bedroom suite, and I told my grandmother not to worry - I was quite happy with my eclectic collection of mismatched things - plain bed, antique dressers, mismatched shelves (just about every shade of brown you can imagine, plus one sky-blue one; I still have most of all that, including the blue one).
As for bedding and blankets, it's the same. Function over appearance, although I do have a few matching sheet/pillowcase sets, with the happy coincidence of managing to find a couple of green and white fleece blankets that go nicely with the solid light green sheet set and the white/green/brown set. I usually just mix and match these sets, since they go together nicely, no matter what combination I happen to grab. For contrasting colors I've got a nice coral pink blanket, a dark brown blanket, a collection of my grandmother's knitted/crocheted afghans (in more colors than I can name), plus a comfy fleece TARDIS blanket I bought from ThinkGeek (they have bedding sets in Doctor Who and Star Trek themes, plus a few others; the latest blanket I bought there has the Periodic Table of Elements on it).
I guess I'm just trying to have as many of my favorite colors around as I can, since I'm not allowed to paint the depressing beige walls in this place (would prefer a nice cheerful light green).
See, I don't get why everybody else wouldn't do this either. Aren't most people interested in having everything on their bed match? Judging by the responses in this thread I guess not, but I don't really get it
Some people like complimentary colors and contrasts.
If I had white sheets I would expect the duvet cover to stay in place in its purple/brown/red/whatever glory while the white sheets and pillow cases get replaced every once in a while. In this scenario the colours don't match, but that's ok, because white goes with most colors really.
But the set I linked earlier had coloured sheets. So you'd think that your duvet cover would want to match that - since it's not white. Right? Wouldn't it look odd if you're sleeping on blue sheets, your pillows are blue, but your duvet cover is burgundy? If the sheets are white a burgundy duvet cover works, but if they're not white..
Blue sheets, blue pillows and a burgundy duvet cover would work if you also had a small decorative burgundy throw pillow for the bed, or a little bit of blue mixed in with the burgundy (like a stripe motif, for instance). But when you make your bed, do you normally leave the sheets showing?
I have a feeling that if i show up to a bedsheet/duvet speciality place, and I tell them all this, they are going to look at me like I came from another planet, like most of you guys. Plus from my experience prices at places like that are going to be a lot more than on amazon.ca
But it's not a bad idea, just to get some advice, I am going to look some up
It never hurts to shop in person and talk to people about it. You might find something you like that you wouldn't have considered, just looking online. I found one of my favorite blankets in the bargain bin at Jysk.