Ben J is looking more and more to be another BQ to me. I try to tell him that if you diplo right you shouldn't get declared on ever by a pleased AI due to starting a world war, and begging gold. But he doesn't care what I have to say, and just goes off on me.
Now you, and my try to tell him that bulbing is better than settling just like I was, and he goes off on you. This guy tooo good.