Sorry for intruding, but EC invited me over during our game. I set up Starwhompers game because I could see that you were a bunch of gamers, and NP could use a little new blood. I wanted to respond to Daftpanzer's laments.
The free games have a high dropout rate, which is why I rarely play them anymore. The premium games tend to have fewer, since there are more motivated players.
Board position is definitely a huge factor in the outcome, but can be overcome by effective diplomacy. For example, starting in the middle usually means an early death, but I've met one player whose strategy is basically to ally himself with almost all his neighbors and focus on just one. The he waits for another ally to backstab him, and then rallies the rest to retaliate. Sometimes that works, sometimes it doesn't
The corner is a great starting position, but can be blocked by the two players adjacent if they work together.
Three players working together can overcome one very strong player if they act soon enough.
There are also game settings to counteract some of these flaws. You can make tech acquisition expensive, or locked in place, to control runaway players or the pace of the game. There is also a galaxy configuration in a spiral (which I am playing in now) that removes position as a factor.
Unfortunately, you either have to pay $20 to access premium games, or keep playing free games to accumulate credits.
Hope that helps