Finally got it to work. Had to flush my steam download cache, like a lot of people, to get it to work.
found a way to play the first of 4 BATTLES during lunch time. very fun, Hittites chariots VS Egyptians chariots. I found the batlle fairly easy because I took time to attentively read the spces of each units. Egyptians have a range of 3, and can move after attacking, but have maluses when in melee. Hittites have range of only 1, but if in melee, they force the opponent into having only a move or an attack action, not both.
So after pre-battle movement, and round 1, all you have to do is make sure all the Egyptian chariots are engaged in melee and it's a win.
From the questions asked in the survey, it seems they want to know if you used river maluses, elevation bonuses and what not from the map to your advantage, but really, playing the Hittites actually stopped you from being able to do so, since you had to react to Egyptians actions more than could dictacte those events. I feel they should have reversed this and make us play the Egyptians.
All in all, I found that the AI played the right way, they worked hard to get far away and elevate themselves on the map. Also, I felt the the advantages and disadvantages of each really played out as expected in the battle.
I'm sure the next 3 are going to be a little more challenging, but it'll have to wait until end of work day ;-)