Welcome to CFC, Scott. My very first game I followed the Tutorial in the Civ Manual (you can download a PDF from CFC's Download section) using the TUTORIAL.SAV map. I then played a few Earth map games, starting as one of the civs on an island or corner of the world (Celts, Japs, Zulus). I tried different Difficulty Levels until I got beat a few times, then stepped down a notch and tried to figure out what I was doing wrong. Later I discovered the Game Of The Month, where I lurked for several months just reading the commentary and play logs and downloading the zipped game saves after the results were posted. Looking at the early saves of players like Starlifter and Smash answered questions about city placement and development; trying to emulate their games answered questions about "how long" and "how much". Then I tried a few One City Challenges and learned all about diplomacy, trade, optimizing tech research, and city development. Each player has a different style, and each game should develop differently based on your goals and abilities. Don't be afraid to try things, and don't consider defeat a disaster. I learned more from my defeats than my victories.