Finding games by friends

[Dead Ice]

my friend and i would like to play against each other, but we cannot see the others game when created. can someone offer any ideas.

Don't Know Jack

 

[JG99_Korab]

Connect by direct ip. IN the multiplayer screen connect by internet then on the lower left side of the screen you should see a direct ip button. Click that and type in the host's ip address. But make sure he is already in the multiplayer game setup menu.
Hope this helps.