Well, as an English teacher, I suppose I should comment on this topic.
First, before I begin talking about grammar, let me say that this crap about American fourth-graders not being able to point out their location on a map is silly anti-American propaganda and not worthy of the intellectual level of this site.
Now, on the topic of English, let me say a few things.
First, I had to giggle a little when I noted Rodgers using the infinitive absolutely correctly, while purporting to be unqualified to comment.
I, too, am very annoyed by the confusion over "me and x" vs. "x and I," but I must point out that it is just as wrong to say "x and I" when one should say "x and me." Many otherwise articulate people have annoyed me by seeming to think that it is never appropriate to say "x and me."
By far, the most annoying is the new "internet speak." At my two other forums, we have a member who repeatedly says things like "u happy 2 c me?" When I see a post like that-- or heaven forbid, a PM--I just cringe.
On a side, note, I have to say that I am less annoyed by grammatical mistakes than you might think, given my profession, and I am never annoyed by people to whom it is a second language. I save my real annoyance for people who are rude or who harbor prejudice against others for no good reason.
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