Well, I thank you for your calm response, but isn't expressing my opinion what I did before? That didn't go down too well, now, did it. You might argue that I didn't explain WHY, but I just don't have the patience to explain why researching Writing before AH, Archery and so on, on Deity, is a dreadful idea.
You are correct that when I loaded the map I was completely gobsmacked by what I saw. I don't want to go into all the things I didn't like, because that will just provoke arguments, I think, which I personally am not interested in. I just don't want to "chew" anyone out. This is a game, and it should be enjoyable.
I meant what I said in my last message sincerely though, I just don't think I'm very good as part of a team. I guess I lack patience and understanding of the differences between people.
TLDR: I'm the bad egg here, I'll drop out and others can replace me that are better team players.