How do people who make around $100k/yr struggle, assuming normal situation?

The average daycare cost for the state of Washington is somewhere in the area of $310 per kid per week. If you are a sole income earner making 100k a year and you have two kids going through daycare, you’re looking at somewhere around $30k/year just for childcare (i.e not including food, clothes, diapers, etc.). That’s 30% of your income just in childcare. If you have a car payment, and/or high rent, and/or medical or student debt, then your effective available income is going to be pretty small even though your gross income is high. That would of course increase even more, say, if your spouse was long-term unemployed or chronically disabled, or if your or their parents were living with you and also had chronic healthcare or hospice care expenses. You can very quickly get into the effectively living in poverty range. Even without the extra dependencies, you are still extremely precarious: one missed paycheck, one car wreck, one major health emergency for you or your kids, and you are facing serious, long term financial crisis.
That is the big flaw of USA, it really punish people for situations outside their control. It would make a lot more sense to raise taxes for people making $100k by $10k and use that money to help the people that need help, by like removing childcare, healthcare and college cost from the individual and make it tax funded.
 
I hope for sure not that the saving part is a 0 here.
It's been true for a long while that many Americans, perhaps even most, have no financial 'padding' to absorb a shock of some kind, such as repair bill for a home or a car, or a small healthcare bill that isn't covered by insurance. Of course the numbers must look ever worse for larger shocks, such as suddenly losing a job or an apartment, a large healthcare bill or having to buy a new car. I'd always heard that the rule of thumb was to have 90 days' expenses in savings, but if only 43% of Americans could afford a sudden $1,000 expense, how many could afford to pay the equivalent of a single month's bills? How many Americans could post bail for a loved one or replace a car that's been 'totaled'?

Fortune, 23 January 2023 - "57% of Americans can’t afford a $1,000 emergency expense, says new report. A look at why Americans are saving less and how you can boost your emergency fund"

I think I'm the only person who mentioned living paycheck-to-paycheck (could be wrong, on mobile), and given that, I'm not sure it's an accurate characterisation.
"Living paycheck to paycheck" is a very common phrase. I wasn't even aware you'd used it here. I was thinking of this sentence in the OP:

Reading various places it seems like a bunch of people making like $100k complain about it not being that much or they even struggling.


I know it’s a classic lib move to ascribe any financial hardship to individual personal moral failings.
Huh. Interesting. I've always understood that to be a classic American conservative position.
 
That is the big flaw of USA, it really punish people for situations outside their control. It would make a lot more sense to raise taxes for people making $100k by $10k and use that money to help the people that need help, by like removing childcare, healthcare and college cost from the individual and make it tax funded.
The US doesn't work that way. We have 50 states with their own rules about lots of things including childcare, healthcare and higher education. The federal government is limited in how it can affect or change state laws or impact how states do business. Tiny nations with few people can be more centralized and controlling.
 
Huh. Interesting. I've always understood that to be a classic American conservative position.
Bunch folks doing that in this thread I wouldn't describe as US (or even US-style) conservatives. Centrist / liberal tracks.
 
Huh. Interesting. I've always understood that to be a classic American conservative position.

I mean lib in the traditional sense of the word, i.e. an emphasis on individual liberty and identity over a sense of the collective, a fetishizing of utilitarian moral philosophy, an understanding of world history as a one of unidirectional stagial progress, a conviction both that capitalism is fundamentally good, inevitable, and eternal, etc.

Under this definition both American conservatives and liberals would be liberals, in contrast to traditional conservatives (who believe in the necessity of some permanent priveliged, titled noble class) or socialists or communists, who strive for an elimination of all existing hierarchies and forms of domination.

Most libs, whether left or right, do the poverty moralizing. Even in this thread.
 
Here is what the thread is about, taking the first line I wrote:

I'm maybe paid like what in USA would be around $90k, like top 25% salary and I've no idea how people making that amount or more should struggle, assuming living alone and having normal expenditure, living in an average cost of living area.

My assumptions is an average cost of living area with normal, not excessive expenditures and live alone, which mean no childrens. Obviously also high salary and in a situation without serious healthcare needs, getting fired or other bad situations.
Average USA rent - $1700 per month
Average USA vehicle payment - $600 per month
Average USA student loan repayment - $250 per month
Average USA health insurance payment - $500 per month
Average USA vehicle insurance payment - $130 per month
Average USA food bill - $390 per month

$3570 is a lot less than $4800, so there should be no struggling.
Seems resonable, sure it may not fit into the 50-30-20 rule perfectly which assumed $3000 and not $3500 spent on needs, the difference between having $1800 or $1300 to spend on wants don't seems to be a big deal to me and you still manage to save like $1200 each month which take care of retirement. A $300 000 house with 20% downpayment should be reachable in about 4 years assuming saving all wants money or using the savings part which sounds rather good.

Under this definition both American conservatives and liberals would be liberals, in contrast to traditional conservatives (who believe in the necessity of some permanent priveliged, titled noble class) or socialists or communists, who strive for an elimination of all existing hierarchies and forms of domination.
Both parties in USA would be considered very economically right wing in Sweden from my knowledge. I think the social views between the parties are far more visible than the difference between economic policies.
I mean lib in the traditional sense of the word, i.e. an emphasis on individual liberty and identity over a sense of the collective, a fetishizing of utilitarian moral philosophy, an understanding of world history as a one of unidirectional stagial progress, a conviction both that capitalism is fundamentally good, inevitable, and eternal, etc.
USA don't seems like a particular free country, especially when consider how the economy is setup to really limit a large part of the population.
Huh. Interesting. I've always understood that to be a classic American conservative position.
I get the feeling it is more built into USA society than being something outlining stuff. Like I've even heard poor people think that they are poor due to their own fault.
Bunch folks doing that in this thread I wouldn't describe as US (or even US-style) conservatives. Centrist / liberal tracks.
Political ideologies seems rather pointless to think about, trying to group together people will fail to get the whole picture of stuff.
Like, what do these anecdotes even mean? This is your thread!
Well everything you say seems to be anecdotes. Atleast I can provide links to various stuff such as productivity, real wages and so on. I've also been to UK and did not find it to be anything like a poverty dystopia.

Can you actually provide a serious claim for statements like this: We're working more, and working harder
Number of average hours worked according to OCED
This seems to point towards people worked more hours in 1950 than they did in the last few years and there seems to been a trend towards working fewer hours on average, not more hours.

I've yet to find anything that actually showcase like 1970s or before being better of than today, like all videos and what I read seems to give a picture of people being significantly worse off compared to what I see today. Also those times was also very unequal. Life expectency for countries like USA and UK was low 70s in year 1970.
It's been true for a long while that many Americans, perhaps even most, have no financial 'padding' to absorb a shock of some kind, such as repair bill for a home or a car, or a small healthcare bill that isn't covered by insurance. Of course the numbers must look ever worse for larger shocks, such as suddenly losing a job or an apartment, a large healthcare bill or having to buy a new car. I'd always heard that the rule of thumb was to have 90 days' expenses in savings, but if only 43% of Americans could afford a sudden $1,000 expense, how many could afford to pay the equivalent of a single month's bills? How many Americans could post bail for a loved one or replace a car that's been 'totaled'?

Fortune, 23 January 2023 - "57% of Americans can’t afford a $1,000 emergency expense, says new report. A look at why Americans are saving less and how you can boost your emergency fund"
That do sound like living paycheck to paycheck but I also assume they have no option but to live like, that saving is like impossible or close to it, like if you can only save something like $200 per month keeping expenditure low, you probably not going to have like $1000 saved up. But if you make enough money that you can easily afford to save $1000 each month, at like a minimal inconvienace it is a whole different ballpark.
 
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Middle class struggles.
I do know people on income levels similar to that. A few are a bit clueless about things when they complain they're hard up.

Often translates to the following

1. Can't afford the McMansion they want.
2. Can't afford that BMW they want.
3. Cant afford to retire to where they want. Basically veen priced out of hot spots to old to service a 20-30 year mortgage.
4. Can't afford the holidays they want.

My sister cant afford to move back near her child hood home. I can't afford to move to where I was born even if I sold the house (we have it freehold). Up to 15-20 years ago we could.

So they're not struggling relative to most of population but exploding house prices looks good on paper until you want to move somewhere else and can't. They're still paying off debt in their 50's. Their income spikebis revent as well due to new job they haven't been getting it last 10 years (kid came along).
 
My folks had pretty good pre-tax pay from long-time government jobs, but we still got hosed in the housing crash and went into foreclosure and bankruptcy. Spent over a decade going from apartment to apartment.
 
My folks had pretty good pre-tax pay from long-time government jobs, but we still got hosed in the housing crash and went into foreclosure and bankruptcy. Spent over a decade going from apartment to apartment.

More detail? We bought our house 2010 but jept it modest that if both of us list our jobs we coukd afford ot on welfare.

20% deposit, paid off in 10 years no other debts.
 
My assumptions is an average cost of living area with normal, not excessive expenditures and live alone, which mean no childrens. Obviously also high salary and in a situation without serious healthcare needs, getting fired or other bad situations.
In the US there is no such mythical place. Local rules apply. All the urban areas are different from each other. The rural areas are more similar, but even they can be very different depending upon what is within a 50 miles commute. The US is too big and too diverse to find useful generalizations about money and lifestyle. Even within specific urban areas there can be very different lifestyle and cost of living options.
 
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Political ideologies seems rather pointless to think about, trying to group together people will fail to get the whole picture of stuff.
Why is politics pointless? Not only do our personal politics shape how we perceive the world, actual regional and national politics shape the data you're drawing from.

Why insist you can analyse data in a vacuum?
Well everything you say seems to be anecdotes. Atleast I can provide links to various stuff such as productivity, real wages and so on.
Data is not an analysis. And data is useless without a granular breakdown to support the sweeping statements you're trying to pass off as some objective conclusion.
I've also been to UK and did not find it to be anything like a poverty dystopia.
Spoiler: this is an anecdote. And a strawman, but mainly an anecdote.

(fun "why is politics relevant" fact: the government in recent years redefined the poverty line so they could say less people are in poverty.
 
Still, if it is just the one person - no family, others to support -, you'd expect them to be ok with 100K/year if not in some extremely expensive house/apartment.

Pretty much. Monaco might be an exception.

It's not enough to buy propery in some places or at least it's very tough.
 
More detail? We bought our house 2010 but jept it modest that if both of us list our jobs we coukd afford ot on welfare.

20% deposit, paid off in 10 years no other debts.
Was a kid, so I don't remember the terms all that well.
 
100k is about the 65th percentile of adult full time pay in Australia, so as an individual it's better off then about two thirds of full time workers.

As a single income household with no kids, it's only about the median household income.

With two kids, equivalised/adjusted for size and costs, it's only about the 33rd percentile, ie you're worse off than two thirds of households.

It's probably not struggling unless you've got kids, but you're still probably not buying a house on it as a single income these days. The right combination of, say, children's needs and medical circumstances could make it quite a bit of a stretch with the current inflation crisis.

No I can't be bothered converting into US funnybucks or whatever.
 
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100k is about the 65th percentile of adult full time pay in Australia, so as an individual it's better off then about two thirds of full time workers.

As a single income household with no kids, it's only about the median household income.

With two kids, equivalised/adjusted for size and costs, it's only about the 33rd percentile, ie you're worse off than two thirds of households.

It's probably not struggling unless you've got kids, but you're still probably not buying a house on it as a single income these days. The right combination of, say, children'
needs and medical circumstances could make it quite a bit of a stretch with the current inflation crisis.

No I can't be bothered converting into US funnybucks or whatever.

Very similar to our potato dollars. 100k usd is approx 166k nzd and take 8% off for kangaroo dollars.
 
The easiest way to spend that kind of money is to support someone in elder care. Retirement homes here start around 3000€/month and it is easy to spend 5000€ if you don't want them to share a room with some other person.
 
Clothes in many cases seems to hardly cost anything nowdays, childcare is basically free or really cheap in Sweden.
Childcare isn't free in US until schoolage, in Uk you can start them fall after their 2nd birthday for free but it's only 3 hours per day after which you must pay.

Hard to do anything that requires concentration with under 3s around.
 
One of the worst obstacles to personal economic freedom, is debt.

It must be absolutely harrowing to leave college or university with a +$100,000 student debt attached to your 'new life'. I've read and heard so many horror stories of newly educated being trapped in low income jobs that they are overqualified for, purely because they have to get any income they can find, to pay off student loans and living expenses. It's crazy for any Government to support such a system; it doesn't benefit the economy one bit to have a qualified engineer or nurse flip burgers in a McDonalds at minimum wages and therefore, minimum tax payments into the economy, if that worker could pay perhaps $10k more into the economy each year, if they were doing what they trained for.
 
I know it’s a classic lib move to ascribe any financial hardship to individual personal moral failings. But generally speaking people who are poor are poor because of structures mandating discrete crises necessarily translate to protracted suffering. The countries with less poverty have less poverty because they provide interlocking systems of welfare that help alleviate the crises and remove the necessity of suffering.
In the meantime if you live in a less than ideal society a person is still responsible for their family and those who are gonna neglect their's are still lousy people.

The criminal justice system in US is corrupt (drug war, unequal sentencing, etc) but at the same time if you break the law (however BS the law might be) and get caught and then can't contribute to your family you can't tell your kids that it's society's fault you couldn't be around for them.

We're all victims of forces beyond our control but we're also responsible for our own decisions.
 
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