Tone said:...but these citizens of all different races and colours; do they live in cities that have flipped to your side due to your civ's superior culture or have they agreed to become part of the commonweath of the world's most dominant civ due to the persuasive abilities of your mounted units?
Sometimes, the end can justify the mean!
For example, have your children agreed to live under your rules becuase they volunteer to do so or because the persuasive abilities of your power? Most importantly, children usually don't realize what is best for them, so you have to convince them from time to time.
