Hi Jayne! We want you to play the GOTM, too

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I'm personally not sure about the obsolete file issue. If someone else does not post with a suggestion in the next day or so, I will locate my old copy of ToT and install it to try and test some things for you.
You might also try and post the issue on the Civ 2 Tech Support Forum
here... (there are some people that read Tech Support that do not play GOTMs too often).
Another idea would be to see if a local store carries the CD-only version of Civ 2. In the US, it is common on the CD sale rack with lots of other CD Jewel case-only software. The cost is normally about $9 USD, and you will be able to use you ToT documentation, charts, etc. with the CD-only version of Civ 2 (its actually the "Classic" version 2.42).
You can also upgrade a "Classic" version to the Civ 2 Multiplayer Gold Edition by downloading and applying Cedric Greene's great patch. It is unofficial, but allows you to upgrade for free!!! See the Tech Support site for more info.
