No one able to help? Well, maybe i need to describe the problem more:
it only appears when I want to load a MP game and only with certain Civs, the Austrin or chislev for example being one of them. On the oder side, for example with Scions i dont have any problems to load a game. I cant push the little button to say im ready to start the game. As you can see in the screenshot i provided, the civ is pushed a little to the right side, where usually the dificulty set is, and and the dificulty level is now where you usually can find the button to press to say you are ready to start. and now this button dissappeared. This happens in autosave games as well as in games saved by myself.
For any help i thank in advance.