With practice you will learn to leverage every trait.
For example, as an Industrious civ, you may be tempted to aimlessly "hard build" wonders in your cities. This is basically a waste of hammers that could go to infrastructure, or military units to acquire more real estate. (Note that your neighbors' real estate comes with population and terrain improvements.)
Now here's an example of a more intermediate Industrious strategy. Get Bronze Working, then Masonary. Build the Great Wall, chopping forests to speed up production.
Once the Great Wall is built, don't build any more wonders. After a while the Wall will generate a Great Engineer, which you can use for another wonder. Which one? Depends on your game. The Pyramids is a good option, which will contribute to another Great Engineer, but there are others.
An early Oracle is another good option for an Industrious leader. Look over the tech tree and see for yourself what you could open with that free technology. Code of Laws is a popular choice. At your difficulty level it could actually be Civil Service
So instead of spending many turns on wonders, you have still leveraged your trait to get some early wonders,
while leaving your cities free to build other things.
Another good option for Industrious is to get the Oracle and use it for Metal Casting. Now you can build half-priced forges, which boost your production and can be used to generate Great Engineers.