A big part of the problem is the P2P and Kazaa...I have a co-worker with a massive problem but won't give up either.
Couple of things....
There is a new build (already) for AdawareSE. The earlier versions were identiying a vital Mozilla .dll as bad stuff. If you deleted it, you disabled Mozilla. Go to Lavasoft or MajorGeeks for the lasted build.
Better instructions for set-up and use of AdAware are
here. The link also includes an explanation for why MarineCorps' avast went nuts when he ran adaware.
As for the running process list here is a link to a startup list that can be used to find and delete potential problems -
http://www.pacs-portal.co.uk/