50 tries later..
500AD with these settings on Deity is just too hard.
Wonders and good rushes slip through fingers.
700AD or 800AD is probably as good as it gets with Elizabeth and so many religious civs hogging Oracle.
As for what map to use, I got a lot of good results with Massive Continents, Icy climate, and medium seas.
Icy Climate really shrinks the belt of jungle in the middle while keeping all the forests in the temperate zones.
Medium seas + Massive continents makes a good sized Egg shaped continent to exploit.
500AD with these settings on Deity is just too hard.

Wonders and good rushes slip through fingers.
700AD or 800AD is probably as good as it gets with Elizabeth and so many religious civs hogging Oracle.
As for what map to use, I got a lot of good results with Massive Continents, Icy climate, and medium seas.
Icy Climate really shrinks the belt of jungle in the middle while keeping all the forests in the temperate zones.
Medium seas + Massive continents makes a good sized Egg shaped continent to exploit.
. The leader picks helped a lot since I only had about one musket per city at the end so if anyone had attacked I would've instantly died. It was funny too since I started on the same land as Justinian and a UN Free Religion civic change had forced me to cautious about ten turns from the end. I also had diplo problems with Mansa and Mehmed, I'm thinking I was lucky neither of them attacked me but I guess they were at least somewhat distracted by other civs.
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