As the thread is updated, try playing first games with a civ that can counter somehow early aggresion until you feel comfortable with as you cannot diplosatisfy everyone early. The pain is difference in strength, but playing America, France, Mongolia counters it a little.
Also note AI usually fortifies 1 warrior near your borders. They would no attack before they bring at least 2 more units in city range, but it is a signal the war is certain. It is your time to take positions
Also note AI usually fortifies 1 warrior near your borders. They would no attack before they bring at least 2 more units in city range, but it is a signal the war is certain. It is your time to take positions