I'm a recovering World of Warcrack addict. I fall off the wagon occasionally. But my focus lately has been women and having a real life. The above article pretty much shows why I'll never join another online rpg. Not that they are all bad. There are pretty worlds to explore. But raiding and excessive pvp in particular are just plain bad. Grinding away at level 80 for what? It's not like you are seeing new areas, you are seeing the same thing over and over again pressing the same buttons over and over again.
I still have the urge to go back. I'm struggling trying to find a new gf. Sometimes I think of giving up and drowning my life in video games again. It was an escape from reality for me like the article says. But I'm not giving up this time.
As for civ5, I don't know how I'll find time to play it. Having a real life is time consuming. Keeping up on facebook alone requires some time. I'm chatting with several different women at once trying to get something started. And I'm terrible at time management. I don't know when I'll have time to play civ5, but I want to so much.