As the topic says, I'm notorious for getting military wins, and usually win my games that way. So i tried another cultural win last night and succeeded, though it took ages.. 
Even though i planned the game to be peaceful (lets all be friends!
) i spawned with Monty and Bismarck, (not very good friends...
) and i was forced to make a stack and take their cities during the game. (Monty early game, Bismarck later) I got the cultural win in the late 1800's, marathon speed, i wanted it early since i got the impression marathon would give me that... didn't work exactly that way i think 
So, what did i do "wrong"? I think some of my warmonger habits kicked in and slowed me down, even when founding 3 religions as planned (Mono,Theo and Divine) and getting one from Monty i still managed to keep up (and ahead) in offensive military techs. Is that a mistake? Should i prioritize Music and other "weak" stuff earlier?
I did get a pretty awesome start, 7-8 cities ready for settling and 4 of them were really good cities. (One city boxed in a third of my continent for me) I played religious economy with my usual hybrid thingie (Representation/some cottages), having 8 cities and good research without CoL and Currency was a new experience for me
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That meant i couldn't totally focus on getting all the temples and stuff up since i wanted lots of shiny wonders too. (mistake?
) I grabbed a lot of important wonders during the game, Pyramids,HG, GL, GLH, Sistine, AP etc, i have problems stopping building if there is one available
.
I made 4 heavy culture cities, is this worth it? I figured having one in backup wouldn't do any harm since all my planned cultural cities were coastal and vulnerable from sea.
I didn't pull the plug on research until i had Infantry and stuff ready, is it possible doing this sooner? (i don't feel safe without Destroyers patrolling my coast and lots of infantry defending/counter attacking)
I got Liberalism first in 1080 something i think (though i got it late because i "needed" military techs
) and used Free Speech as soon as i could for the rest of the game. Switched between Org. Religion and Pacifism during most of the game. Is free religion worth it sooner? (i don't know how much more culture i get from the other religions) I didn't switch to it earlier because i had Spiral of M. and U. of Sankore and got lots of beakers from them.
I did this with Ramesses II on standard Hemispheres 3 continents, Emperor difficulty, Aggressive AI on (i'm not sure if this makes it easier or harder for me). Is he a good leader to do this with? I liked his traits for this, but he didn't start with Mysticism so i couldn't grab one of the two early religions.
So give advice and criticize my strategy, help me become (a little bit) more peaceful!
Fun note from this game: This is the first game i've seen a successful continent invasion from AI's, Hannibal and Sury managed to conquer the last continent before i finished my cultural. (we made great friends too with me joining in with phony wars
)
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Even though i planned the game to be peaceful (lets all be friends!



So, what did i do "wrong"? I think some of my warmonger habits kicked in and slowed me down, even when founding 3 religions as planned (Mono,Theo and Divine) and getting one from Monty i still managed to keep up (and ahead) in offensive military techs. Is that a mistake? Should i prioritize Music and other "weak" stuff earlier?

I did get a pretty awesome start, 7-8 cities ready for settling and 4 of them were really good cities. (One city boxed in a third of my continent for me) I played religious economy with my usual hybrid thingie (Representation/some cottages), having 8 cities and good research without CoL and Currency was a new experience for me

That meant i couldn't totally focus on getting all the temples and stuff up since i wanted lots of shiny wonders too. (mistake?


I made 4 heavy culture cities, is this worth it? I figured having one in backup wouldn't do any harm since all my planned cultural cities were coastal and vulnerable from sea.
I didn't pull the plug on research until i had Infantry and stuff ready, is it possible doing this sooner? (i don't feel safe without Destroyers patrolling my coast and lots of infantry defending/counter attacking)
I got Liberalism first in 1080 something i think (though i got it late because i "needed" military techs

I did this with Ramesses II on standard Hemispheres 3 continents, Emperor difficulty, Aggressive AI on (i'm not sure if this makes it easier or harder for me). Is he a good leader to do this with? I liked his traits for this, but he didn't start with Mysticism so i couldn't grab one of the two early religions.
So give advice and criticize my strategy, help me become (a little bit) more peaceful!

Fun note from this game: This is the first game i've seen a successful continent invasion from AI's, Hannibal and Sury managed to conquer the last continent before i finished my cultural. (we made great friends too with me joining in with phony wars

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