Oh wait, it should be pretty easy to show how my games usually are played since I recorded some way back when:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLIdfwcYam8Sh7DYXIdSjv5p6Vh4awWsaG
This game was a little over 3 hours long but was fairly quick.
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLIdfwcYam8SjO49k3EuCA1ZH5sv1cjV6P
4 hours is probably more normal.
in general, I don't micromanage, and planning is pretty basic and based on eyeballing things. Though I do care a bit about wonder placement. After the early game I just beeline techs/civics by putting it on some faraway desired tech. I don't have any long term plans though I will think about it more during breaks. I suppose it would be better if I constantly checked trade screens and get the best trade deals but who has time for that crap? Also I'll just quit games if it requires too much work like navigating stuff through narrow passages though I may play it to something considered a winnable position.