Personally, I find that in any game, I have 3-5 cities that I truly care about, that I put effort to getting the right improvements and the right districts, and to maximize the city. The rest of my empire most of the time just does busy work, builds things here or there, but I'm not really actively managing, although I will say that sometimes those cities will become well above average cities.
Now, those other cities do provide valuable resources/districts/adjacencies/bonuses/etc... that my core needs, so I think not even having them at all would seriously hurt you. So if you didn't settle those marginal spots and only focused on a core? Hard to say what you want.