In a nutshell:
- - I am a veteran Civ 5 player with 6000-7000 hours logged
- - I bought Civ 6 a couple of days ago
- - As it stands, I really can't get along with it, nothing makes sense to me.
- - Even on Settler difficulty, it seems really hard to achieve anything, even when focusing one particular area. For instance, on Civ 5 if you went all-in on religion, you would be pretty successful in spreading it. My first game was on Prince and I got overrun with barbarians. Restarted on Settler to try and learn the game. Focused on religion, converted 2 or 3 cities besides my own, but then got dogpiled by everyone as if I was doing something terrible.
- - The game is SO different from Civ 5 and way more complicated, and there seems to be no way to know what to do or how to make sense of it all
civ6 is indeed very different than civ5. So I am not surprised that you are experiencing a difficult learning curve. It sounds like you are trying to play civ6 like it is civ5 and that is why you are losing. So my guess is you are keeping just one city and focusing on building it up with monument, granary, holy site district for religion and neglecting your military. That is a sure way to lose in civ6.
Here are a few key things to understand:
- civ6 rewards expansion and going "wide" more than civ5. So you want to "spam" cities. You should not hesitate to have 6-7 cities by the end of the classical age.
- Early military is more important than in civ5. You need to build more units in civ6 than in civ5. And in civ6, barbarians will spawn near you and try to sack your cities if you don't protect them. Spam a few warriors and then archers once you unlock the tech early to protect your cities. And always escort your settlers with a military unit or your settler will get stolen by barbarians or another civ.
- Use your early warriors and archers to hunt down and kill barbarian outposts as soon as possible to prevent them from spamming units. Also, killing barbarian outposts will give you gold you can use to rush buy stuff.
- My early game is always this: spam a warrior or two first, then build a settler, spam another 2 warriors, build a setter, build an archer etc... I use 1 warrior for exploration and use the other ones for defense. When I find a barbarian outpost, I kill it as quickly as possible.
If you do these two things (spam some early warriors and archers and then expand with cities) you should have a decent start on settler.
Other things:
- Get walls as soon as possible as they will greatly protect your cities and add a ranged attack. Also, put an archer in the walled city for a second ranged attack. Your cities will be much safer early on.
- Always keep a strong military (as many units as your economy can afford) to deter other civs. The AI will not hesitate to declare a surprise war against you if they perceive your military as weaker than theirs.
- when you get commercial districts. build at least one early on and get traders. Trade routes will greatly boost your economy early on and prevent your economy from going into the red because of too many units. Also, get the policy card that makes unit maintenance cheaper since that will also help you from going into the red.
- Pick your first government based on your focus in the early game. If you need to fight wars or planning conquests, go oligarchy to boost your combat strength, If you are focusing on wonders, go autocracy for the wonder bonus. If you are planning to play peaceful and build districts, go classical republic for the bonus to Great Persons. I almost never go autocracy. I usually go oligarchy to boost my military to further help me against barbarians and early wars.
- Ignore holy sites early, unless you are trying for a religious victory (but I find the religious victory super boring since it requires spamming missionaries and evangelists and micro managing them to convert cities).
- Pay attention to your policy cards. They replace the traditions in civ5. They allow you to customize your empire. For example, get the policy card that makes settlers cheaper when you are building settlers. That will make your expansion go faster. get the card that makes builders cheaper and gives you extra charges when you are focused on builders because that will make improving your terrain go faster. In civ6, your builders improve terrain instantly but use limited charges. Once they use up all their charges, they die. So for example, they start with 3 charges meaning they can improve 3 terrain tiles before they go away and you have to build another builder.
- Always use the "discipline" policy card in your military slot as soon as you get. This will boost your military against barbarians and make it much easier to defeat barbarians.
- You get policy cards from your civics. You can change cards for free when you get a new civic. If you want to change cards at other times, it will cost gold. Governments have different slots (military, economy, diplomacy and wild). Cards can only go in their category (military cards in military slots etc...) The exception is the wild slots can take any card. You will note that governments have different number of slots in each category. Some governments give you more military slots but fewer economy slots. This will make governments better at certain play styles than others.
If you do these two things (spam some early warriors and archers and then expand with cities) you should have a decent start on settler.
- Early wars can be really good in civ6. Spam 2-3 warriors and a couple archers and rush a nearby civ. On settler, you should able to conquer the AI civs pretty easily. Conquering a couple neighbors early (ancient and classical age) will set you up for a much easier game since you will have fewer enemies and more space to spam cities. You can them expand to 8-9 cities easily with no opposition, and dominate your continent.
I know it is a lot. There are more mechanics in civ6 than civ5 but once you learn them, they are not complicated.
Hope this helps.
I would encourage you to stick with it. civ6 is good once you learn the mechanics. Also, maybe watch some civ6 playthroughs. Hopefully, you will learn a few tips that way.
Good luck and don't hesitate to ask questions.