If you quit the game my answers might still be useful for you.
erm, take screenies of what and when?
At current time and of your main lands, maybe demographics too, it could make me see something that I can't see by not having the right DLC and not being able to download the save. A picture says more than a thousand words.!
Hadn't planned on connecting them with anything but harbors.
I always connect my cities early to get that gold flowing, when you're able to build those harbours, you can count the maintanence of said roads and the maintainance of the harbours, what cities will benefit from harbours only/roads only. If harbours are better, then you delete the roads with workers.
While I wasn't making too terribly much, I wasn't running on negative or anything.
You want more gold than just a trickle, roads early are great if your cities are above 4 or better, the bigger the city, the more gold you get from traderoutes. No reason at all to connect "future cities", if you think they will grow slowly.
hmm maybe... though wonders are more important in cultural than they are any other time aren't they?
Wonders are so tempting, for me is the Stonehenge, I want it. If I lose it I sook and make a plan to take it, if it's on my own continent. If not, figure out a new plan. I never try for all wonders, I rather build a handful of units to defend what I have.
Only ones I had so far was tradition and honor.
Liberty is King, well at least before G&K! Everything in that policy is ok, faster building settler ->free settler, faster workers ->free worker, 1 extra production in all cities, 1 unhappiness by every city connected to the capitol (there are my roads) and the last one makiing policies cheaper in the future and you get a Golden age! Not to mention you get a free Great Person when you finish this policy-tree.
In culture-games I still go through this tree first.
Biggest problem: Getting overwelmed by France. Jerusalem was able to hold them off for quite a while but france just had so many (plus he had pikemen while I Just had spearmen available to me) that I knew it was pointless to continue, so I just called it quits.
That's why I build units before wonders, know your enemy! France, Germany and Aztecs loves to hassle me. Many times I had Russia, Greece and Siam doing the same, if I'm weak.
All in all, it's a steep learning-curve, but when you get it, it's quite fun.
