Try a lower difficulty or go for faster wins. I generally wait around cause i like to enjoy my games and not win immediately. But the game i was talking about was almost constant warfare. I warrior-rushed Asoka, axe-rushed HC, and attacked Joao with maces. Then the game went to hell. Toku declared on me, JC declared on me; Survy was close to declaring... I managed to crush Joao before JC's 50-unit stack of Praets, Maces, 'Phants, and Cats reached me, and got peace after crushing his stack (he took a city and i suicided trebs), but the war with Toku lasted for a while, and he got Sams (~40 unit stacks of sams, knights, and crossbows is devastating). I got peace, got rifles, and then attacked toku (CR2/CR3 rifles, and my tech path placed me 2 techs from Assembly Line) but he got rifles after i got infantry. Toku capped to JC, starting another world war which ended when i crushed another 50-unit stack from JC and defeated Toku. Survy vassalized to me, and i started another war against JC, and i won with infantry and artillery against rifles and cannon.