"But you would be taking Canadian tax money (through shared services and military and the like). "
And we will give Quebec money either. So what's the point? Tell us why Québec would not pay their share?
Both Canada and Québec would benefit. Québec will be a great contributor and it will cover more expenses than if Québec is not part of the equation. Please give me an exaustive explanation of on how come the ROC would be a loser to benefit from the paid share from Québec. We do not expect to use these confederal tools more than we every did.
"The EU idea is that by breaking down barriers among many diverse economies with geography in common, then you will increase everyone's economic power. Your model is different, I cannot see how Canada's economic power will increase through a EU relationship with Quebec. "
Why? What is the difference? I think you should rather ask to the Torontonian business men. Harris, the former leader of Ontario clearly said that he will keep up the same relations with an independent Québec. Since Ontario represents the biggest province of Canada, I suggest you to talk them first.
"California does have a seat on the UN, it's labeled United States, nor is it less equal than any other state in our union."
California does not feel to have more than this because they feel they are as american as New York and Florida. It is not the case about Québec vs Canada. If you compare Québec culture with english Canada's, it is like if you compare USA's with France's. You said "and recognize that the majority rules in a republic" amd I answer you, Canada does not form a republic like the USA. There is clearly two distinct nations. Unlike in the USA.
"Economically what does Quebec produce? I am asking, because if the Quebec economy is strongly tied to production from Ontario and Alberta, then it will be in trouble standing on it's own. I honestly don't know that answer, that's why I am asking. "
We have one of the best bio-pharmaceutic sector industry in america
Bombardier, one of the leaders in the aero-spacial industry
Québecor, a leader in paper industry
Alcan, a big Aluminium producer
Lavalin, a multinational ingenering company
Hydro-Québec, totally owned by the gov't and one of the best efective and productive hydro-electricity. We earn profits of around 1.5G USD a year, even if we have one of the lowest cost in North America.
Montréal is in the top 5 best cities for technology industry
We have a very good human ressources and a pretty well shaped and growing economy. We are very close to the same Finland's results about educational success.
and so on... we have nothing to be ashamed of. It doesn't scare me a bit.
"that isn't fully thought out"
Well, it depends about who we are talking about. Because I don't think that nuking economical relations is quite "fully thought out". Almost if it is only because you want to penalized a democratically freed region.

Until now, all our partners said they would like to continu business with us if we get separate. I don't think they have lied and I don't think we would be willing to change their mind.
Oh by the way, I have a good one for you. About half of the american lottery corporations are doing business with the printer Oberthur Gaming Technologies. It is a branch of the French company Oberthur based in France. Guess who is either their auditor and the biggest lottery auditor in North America? Samson Bélair, the Québec part of Deloitte & Touche. So, around half of the american lottery corporations have their scratch ticket games audited by the Montréal firm. They also audit several European Lottery Corporations. I worked for them 7 years before I changed to a better position into a Montréal branch of a Swiss bank.
As you can see, I am not impressed by your concerns about if we are a good potential partner or not.

I know we are and our actual relations know it as well.