I guess I have to shoulder the responsibility for the way this turned out. I picked the team, and chose the variant, and made the rules (badly).
I thought you guys would get on, and I suspect that if you had won the game easily, as you are all used to doing, then you would have got along.
I don't blame you for quitting, from the point of view of the competition, it's over. You would only be playing for the love of the game, and to test yourself in a genuinely difficult situation.
It was my intention that the variants for SGOTM would be difficult enough that some teams would always lose. But having constructed such a game it is reasonably clear that most people not only don't like losing (who does?), but actually find it unacceptable. For this reason, it will be some time before I provide such an extreme game, if ever.