SLOW DOWN SIS! She been dating this guy for three weeks!!

[bloodofages]

For only three weeks she has been dateing this guy, and they are already talking about marriage next year! She been spending alot of time with him and spending the nights with him. I am worried about my two nephews and they might get too attach to this guy. No one in the family has meet this guy and she says he is "nice" but from what she tells me..He seems to be nice, from what i hear and i don't trust anyone that is "nice" all the time. If she does get married this will be her Fourth husband in her life! How can i tell her to SLOW DOWN! She just getting divorced from her last husband! I don't want to make it seem like i am telling her what to do but i think she is heading for another heartache with this guy.

 

[I am the Future]

First off
It is sorta weid to ask strangers on the internet for family help,
But,
I would recomend sitting down with her(maybe take her to McDonalds or sumfin) and tel her that you want to talk to this guy. Get to know him b4 you make any decisions, Maybe he is the one 4 her

 

[Elrohir]

My mom always said that you should know the person you intend to marry for at least a year before you marry them.

It sounds like your sister is really bad with men. You should talk to her, and try and help her not to make another bad mistake.

 

[The Yankee]

It's not weird if you can get unbiased suggestions on it.

But, unfortunately, I wasn't able to get my older cousin to wake up to things. Hopefully her new family is going well and that Ireland is working out for her, though.

Maybe your sister is very desperate...but I have no idea how to convince someone to slow down.

 

[bloodofages]

Like the Yankee said i want a unbiased suggestion.
Elrohir : She is really bad with men. She also not the brightest one and probley wouldn't know if someone was takeing ad antage(SP) of her like like her last three husbands.

 

[farting bob]

Break his legs with a baseball bat, and tell him to leave the country tonight.
Or you could just remind your sister that she's only been seeing this guy for a few weeks and obviosuly just has a crush on him, not love. 3 marriages already so im guessing this isnt the first time she's rushed into getting serious.

 

[bloodofages]

All her marriages never worked out. Her last husband she dated a month before getting married.

 

[h4ppy]

like like her last three husbands.

Ten char.

 

[King Alexander]

My mom always said that you should know the person you intend to marry for at least a year before you marry them.

Most clever people do exactly that You can't possibly know a person very well, if you only know him for three weeks: you also need time to see him in a bad mood.

Oh, before I forget it: IMHO a couple should be FORCED BY LAW to live TOGETHER for a few months, before the marriage

 

[AceChilla]

Invite them for a dinner and get too know this guy.

Three weeks is way to short to be even thinking about marriage. I'm amazed this thought even crossed their minds already.

 

[Babbler]

Dr. Phil: Next up, we'll meet a brother who wants her sister to slow after three devoice, and after dating her next husband for only three weeks. Coming up

Cue clip with dramatic music and blue shading

Woman: I love (Mr. X), and I will get married to him.

Man: I want what best for her, and getting into another marriage isn't what's best for her.

Woman: He went behind my back talking to his loser friends on the internet about our private affair. Why did he do that?

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Seriously, the pattern of marriage-devoice-marriage seems unhealthy to me. She should go see a doctor (and, for the love of God, not Dr. Phil).

 

[Mise]

Dr Phil strikes me as a ******. A ****** who lost the audition for Super Mario in the 1993 film of that name.

As for your sister, don't let her marry anyone for at least another 2 years! Three divorces?! Ross off friends had three divorces. ROSS OFF FRIENDS! You want her to end up like him? Tell her that. Well not really I'm joking. But DON'T LET HER MARRY HIM!

 

[Hygro]

forget waiting at least one year to marry someone, try two! I know many people who would love the idea of marriage in their first year and are so glad they broke up some time in their second year.

 

[farting bob]

Ross off friends had three divorces. ROSS OFF FRIENDS! You want her to end up like him? Tell her that. Well not really I'm joking. But DON'T LET HER MARRY HIM!

I thought he only had 2? the one that turned lesbian and racheal? they managed to find some other person to marry him somewhere in the plot did they?
Anyway, after 3 failed marriages, you have to ask if maybe she has commitment problems.

 

[Babbler]

Dr Phil strikes me as a ******. A ****** who lost the audition for Super Mario in the 1993 film of that name.

You mean for the part of Bowser, right?

As for your sister, don't let her marry anyone for at least another 2 years! Three divorces?! Ross off friends had three divorces. ROSS OFF FRIENDS! You want her to end up like him? Tell her that. Well not really I'm joking. But DON'T LET HER MARRY HIM!

I thought he only had 2? the one that turned lesbian and racheal? they managed to find some other person to marry him somewhere in the plot did they?
Anyway, after 3 failed marriages, you have to ask if maybe she has commitment problems.

He almost marries an Englishwoman (in England) but saids "Rachael" instead of "Emily" (her name) at the ceremony.

 

[Kayak]

Just how old is your sister?

 

[feline_dacat]

Has anyone considered that she might not listen to her brother? I know when i was in a real bad relationship i just wouldn't hear anything anyone had to say against my ex. What she might need is to see someone she cares about in the same situation as her - it really is such a wake-up call to see it from the outside. Its unfortunately if there are two people in the same kinda situation though.

 

[bloodofages]

Just how old is your sister?

She is 35. Also if you need to know i am her younger brother. WAY WAY younger brother. Not that younger...She is 12yrs older then me.

 

[Maniacal]

You shouldn't marry anyone until you have been dating for 2 years!

 

[Hygro]

You shouldn't marry anyone until you have been dating for 2 years!

Amen! 6789