I can believe that there are some unmentioned game rules by which all old time players play, and one of them could be the replaying/reloading is allowed...
That is why I ask clarification on that as it is a huge difference in gaming odds if one player does and one player doesn't reload.
I have no complaints on Deztro as a person, or as a player, so I like to avoid to make this issue bigger than need be.
I just ask for a ruling from the community..
after that me and Deztro can arrange things (if he wants) that we can continue the game further,
I do NOT accuse him from cheating. It may very well be a case of different interpretation of written and unwritten game rules.