I agree, but there is still more of a shock value when people use derogatory names, but yes, I would hope that both phrases be treated with equally harsh punishmnet. But isn't that the point? We are trying to cut down on swearing and trying to cut down on insults as well. Saying one vulger word is a lot easier and more spontaneous than trying to say five. Not to mention, if someone has to type more words, they are more apt to think about what they are saying, not that this always helps...