@CrazyG, you can try to build a worker first, it will come out nicely if you have tech mining first to either mine or chop. In any case, fast population growth is of the utmost concern in the early game, so you can also use it to build farm asap. On deity, you should build warrior and one fast archer if you are turtling, if not the AI will surely come after u before turn 60 on epic or turn 100 on marathon. You want to avoid an early clash because the earlier the clash, the more your economy will suffer. Build monoment/shrine after you have at least 4 military units . Try not to build scout until you have at least two cities, it takes one unit count.
For VP, one trick you can do is to do a perimeter scout of the surrounding , hopefully to reveal a few CS , because they gift science rewards pretty generously just by revealing other civs, so hold your horses before reveal too much of the map.