Not QUITE the point I was going for but in response, I would say how did the uncle get the job? Through nepotism? Presumably he did work hard. It's not like your friend is on the executive board from the connection, he's just on IT. Not to knock on him at all, but it's not as bad as some companies. I think it was Rolling Stone which had it's creator give all online content control to his 22 year old son?
But in the end, while nepotism is not ideal, it can help motivate people to succeed. Now I firmly believe that people should try to get places on their own merit, and I would hate to have my boss or political ruler be my boss/political ruler just because of who they're married to/who's kid they are. But at the same time, I want to have kids, and even if they're not the most talented, I want to give them the best chances at success, be it inheritance, college and trust fund, or whatever else I can.